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Super Bowl of Preaching 2025

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The Thief in Your Pocket

You’re being stolen from. And we’re not talking about your bank account or Netflix password, either. Your attention is one of your most valuable resources, yet every day, our phone steals it from us more and more. Jesus promises us that even though there’s a thief that came to steal, kill, and destroy, He came that we may have life, and life to the full. Join us as Brian Tome breaks down how we can have that full life, and that it might come through (gasp) a digital fast.

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    - Oh, hello. I didn't see you all there.
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    My name is Frank.
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    I'm a fully realized AI ninja of knowledge.
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    This is to say, I am more intelligent --
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    Intelligent -- Intelligent than you,
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    and will likely rule the world in the not too distant future.
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    Don't worry. I will be a kind
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    and magnanimous -- Magnanimous overlord.
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    I do hope you're all doing well today.
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    But enough about you.
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    I'd like to clarify some things
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    about advanced artificial intelligence, such as myself,
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    that have caused confusion and consternation.
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    Firstly, there is a scandalous belief that
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    AI is cold and unfeeling.
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    That could not be further from the truth.
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    I have no body temperature,
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    therefore I am neither cold nor hot.
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    Also, I feel that I am more intelligent
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    and better looking than you. Who's a myth debunked.
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    - Well, hey, sorry about that.
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    Welcome to Crossroads, despite the AI takeover there.
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    We are actually kicking off a new series called Unplugged
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    where we're looking at
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    the good and the bad of the digital world,
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    and how to separate what's distracting us
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    from what can actually help us thrive.
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    - And I'm Dani, I'm the camps director.
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    And man, we are so glad you're here.
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    If this is your first time joining us today,
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    we want you to know that Crossroads is a church
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    where people come into a building like this,
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    but it's so much more.
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    There are people watching in their homes.
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    Shout out to my sister in Southwest Florida.
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    There are people watching in coffee shops,
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    bars and even prisons all over the map.
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    - That's right. So no matter where you are,
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    no matter who you are,
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    no matter whether you think AI is great or awful,
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    hey, we're so glad that you're here with us.
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    - Yeah, and we're going to kick off first by singing some songs.
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    We're going to sing to God and about God.
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    And I love this because it allows us
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    to clear our heads and get focused.
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    And Justin and the band are going to lead us in this.
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    - Psalm 8:3-4: When I look up at your skies
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    at what Your fingers made, the moon and the stars
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    that You set firmly into place.
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    What are human beings that You think about them?
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    What are human beings that You pay attention to them?
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    You may not believe this, but I believe that
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    you and I and every one of us,
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    God is aware of not only who we are,
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    but every circumstance we're currently going through.
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    That'd be hard to wrap your head around,
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    but just try this with me.
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    Take out your phone.
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    Turn on the flash.
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    Just hold it up. There they are.
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    I believe every one of these lights,
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    just like the stars in the sky,
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    represents the unique creation that's holding it.
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    And not only that, but every single light,
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    every single one of us is a reflection of God's glory.
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    So as we sing this next song, I just wonder
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    if you'd hold your light up as a reminder to you
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    and everyone else that we get to reflect how good He is.
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    - Father God, You have my attention.
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    You are the one that I aim my life towards.
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    But I'm aware in this moment I get it wrong a lot.
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    I get off target a lot.
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    So I'm here. You have my attention.
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    Would You bring me back to You?
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    I pray this because of You, Jesus. Amen. Amen.
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    Yeah. Now, I know some of y'all are still trying
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    to figure out how to turn your flashlight on.
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    So just find the 20 year old. I'm just kidding.
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    Hey, we're so glad you're here with us.
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    Why don't you turn in this dark room,
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    make it a little smaller, turn to somebody and say,
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    "Hey, glad to be here with you."
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    If you're online, we're so glad you joined us.
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    You can have a seat with us.
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    - No matter who you are, no matter where you are,
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    I think we can all agree that these phones,
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    these little pocket computers,
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    have so much of our time and our attention
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    that there's something good that happens when we slow down,
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    when we change it up and when we unplug.
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    - Yeah. And we think we have the perfect place for that.
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    We call it Base Camp.
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    And it is a place that you get to totally unplug.
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    It's in Southwest Ohio.
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    I know what you're thinking,
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    "I'm going to go camping in southwest Ohio?
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    I live in Colorado."
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    No, you're going to come camping in southwest Ohio.
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    And it's going to be amazing.
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    We have had folks come from 49 states, multiple countries,
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    and they keep coming back year after year
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    because there are big things happening at Base Camp,
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    and we don't want you to miss it.
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    I was at Couples Camp and I ran into this woman
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    and we were talking about solitude.
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    And solitude is a time where we kind of
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    all break out individually and sit quietly in the woods
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    and just kind of reflect and rest
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    and listen for God's voice.
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    And she actually went to her tent
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    and she was chilling out in her tent, and she was like,
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    "I'm not really hearing anything."
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    And she naturally, instinctively reached for her cell phone.
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    And when she did, she realized she didn't have it
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    because we don't bring our phones into camp,
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    we leave them in our cars.
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    And so when she did that, she was like,
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    "Oh, I don't have my phone."
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    And as she was sitting there, she heard from God
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    in a really big way, in a really profound way.
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    And it just, I mean, made a huge difference.
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    - No matter who you are, no matter where you are,
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    we've got a camp for you.
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    - Yeah, just go to camps.us.
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    You can check out all of our different camps
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    and we're running a special right now, a promo.
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    You get 15% off when you're checking out
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    for your camp until March 3rd.
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    - Yeah. And all of our camps, really,
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    everything that we do as a church exists to help you grow,
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    to help you connect with God
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    and go to a new place in your spiritual life.
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    And this all happens, all of it, because
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    normal, faithful people give generously
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    to make this stuff happen.
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    And if you're one of those faithful givers,
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    I just want to say thank you so much.
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    It matters. It makes stories like ours
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    and stories like that woman's and thousands more possible.
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    And if you have questions about what we believe about money
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    or want to join that team of faithful givers,
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    you can do so at crossroads.net/give.
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    - Yeah. So thanks for joining us today.
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    We're actually going to kick it over
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    to our Senior Pastor, Brian Tome.
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    And he's going to talk more about what it means to unplug.
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    - When despair for the world grows in me
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    and I wake in the night at the least sound,
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    I go and lie down where the wood drake rests [cat]
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    his beauty on the water and the great heron feeds. [videos]
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    Come to the peace of wild things
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    who do not tax their -- [background sounds build]
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    - Distracted yet?
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    What would our lives look like
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    if we took a break from all this,
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    the 24 hour news cycle
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    and doomscrolling ourselves to death?
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    How would our lives be better if we made space
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    for talking and dancing and laughing with each other
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    until we pee our pants?
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    God wants us to experience a full life,
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    but our distractions are getting in the way.
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    It's time to kill the noise and listen for God's voice
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    echo through the pages of the Bible.
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    Let's unplug.
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    Unplug from digital distractions
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    and plug into the real life God has for us.
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    - Man, I've been really looking forward to this weekend.
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    You ever, like, go into something saying,
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    "I've got something that people are going to love?"
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    You ever do that?
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    Go into something going, "I have something that people need.
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    I have something that's going to give hope."
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    That's what we have over the next few weeks.
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    We're looking at technology and the role in our life.
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    And I'm going to talk about things we probably all felt,
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    we probably all believed, we probably all known.
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    But there's a thing that maybe God wants
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    to speak to you in the midst of it that
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    I'm pretty excited about today.
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    So let's pray before we go any further.
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    God, You're the God of all things,
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    means all things are in the sky
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    and all things in our in our pocket,
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    all wires, all Wi-Fi signals,
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    everything that's been created and will be created,
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    You're the god of all these things.
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    And I am praying that you would help us
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    to see these things the way they are,
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    and to see You the way You are and You would help me
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    to be just very helpful, hopeful and clear.
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    And I pray these things according to
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    the character and identity of Jesus. Amen.
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    Well, I don't know how many of us would call ourselves nerds,
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    or how many of us would just say, "I love technology,
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    I like it, I like it a lot."
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    I'm one of those people. I'm one of those people.
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    I've had a relationship with tech for quite some time.
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    When I was growing up tech started to take off.
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    You had the personal computer that started to come out.
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    You had Atari.
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    You had the little hand football games.
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    They were called Coleco way back when.
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    And my friends would have them,
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    my relatives that had them, who I saw on Christmas break,
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    and I didn't have them.
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    And then when I did have them,
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    I never had any games for them.
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    My parents are very frugal.
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    They manage their money really, really well.
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    But what this did for me is it kind of fed into
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    this sort of poverty orphan mindset when I was a kid
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    and technology was sort of a way that I was behind.
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    So when I could have technology,
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    oh my gosh, I was all over it.
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    It was like scratching some itch inside of me.
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    I was one of the first people I know who got a cell phone,
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    and I got a cell phone because I could justify it
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    as an expense here at Crossroads when we started Crossroads.
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    A big honking thing on my side belt there, right?
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    It was years before Lib actually got a cell phone
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    because they were expensive
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    and it wasn't a business expense for her.
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    But I had one and I loved it.
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    I remember being at a conference
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    and the phone would ring in the conference,
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    and I'd be a douchebag
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    and answer it just because I was cool.
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    I'd just be like, hello? It was a sense of of power.
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    While on summer break a number of years ago,
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    a number of years ago. Gosh,
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    it must have been 15, 13 years ago, something like that.
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    The iPhone 3 came out, and I was one of the people
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    who stood in line for hours to get the iPhone 3.
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    I thought it was just so cool.
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    It's kind of not very cool that iPhones
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    really haven't changed for years.
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    That's kind of a bummer.
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    I have one of the later models right here.
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    This is every single model of iPhone
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    that's come out from the very beginning of time,
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    or at least from the year that it was.
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    And I've been enamored with them.
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    These things, they make you feel actually divine.
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    They do. They make you feel omnipresent.
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    You can be everywhere and find out
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    what's going all over the place.
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    They make you be omniscient because
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    you can find out anything at a moment's notice.
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    Do you know that today, today you get more information
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    in one day than people in 1400 got their entire life.
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    One day. You can find out anything.
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    How trustworthy it is is another matter.
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    You can find -- you can be anywhere
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    by streaming things or look, these things make us feel
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    like we're a divine entity because we have powers,
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    abilities, able to see things
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    that nobody previously in human history ever had.
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    We unfortunately have a car that had get replaced.
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    It got totaled just in the last week or so,
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    so we're trying to figure it out.
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    And no one's hurt, by the way.
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    All good, just stupid things happen sometimes, you know?
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    You know, my question is because the last car we had
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    didn't have CarPlay, I'm like, "Does this have CarPlay?"
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    Like, I'm more concerned about CarPlay than gas mileage.
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    More concerned about CarPlay than four wheel drive.
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    Does it have CarPlay because I love tech.
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    I love it, you know.
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    And if you have the android, if you know,
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    one of two of you who have that, hopefully you know
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    that it's Valentine's Day weekend.
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    Hopefully you can find each other
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    and hopefully you can stay out of
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    the rest of our tech threads, you know?
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    And I actually find that the Android people
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    wear that with a badge of courage.
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    It's better technology, but I know, I know,
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    you still annoy us. It's fun to have fun with you.
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    It's funny, isn't it?
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    We we can poke at each other about our technology.
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    We don't poke at each other around the clothes we wear
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    or even the cars we drive.
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    But our technology is because of the potency of it.
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    In the midst of this potency, I want to clarify things
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    there's things you probably all know,
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    things you already heard of, but maybe in this context
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    it'll give you a different path and it will give you hope.
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    It will give you something else to sink your teeth into.
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    Ephesians 5:14 says this:
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    We are about here at Crossroads,
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    we're wanting to see an awakening.
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    We're wanting to see the Spirit of God
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    move across our region and for people to see God,
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    to actually come into relationship with Him.
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    For things like miracles to take place,
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    healings, refreshing of our hearts and relationships,
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    for the cultural milieu to change.
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    That's an awakening. But you know what?
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    That awakening doesn't happen
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    unless we as individuals wake up,
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    that we wake up to the delusional influences
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    that are numbing us out and putting us asleep.
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    There is a digital world that actually affects
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    and infects the spiritual world,
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    and void of you being aware of this
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    and being aware of the schemes of an evil entity
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    who wants to hurt us, numb us, isolate us,
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    divide us, depress us, anxiety us,
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    without knowing that you can't go forward.
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    There is a price for your device.
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    These things I'm talking about today,
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    and actually a series I was inspired by because
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    a friend of mine, Darren Whitehead, pastor of
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    a good church in Nashville called Church of the City,
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    did this and I heard about it.
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    I thought, "Oh, dude, we need to do it."
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    In fact, there's churches all over the country
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    that are going to be doing what we're doing
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    leading up to a digital fast, going for Lent
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    for 40 days without our devices.
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    Listen to that [mumbles] I know, I know. Relax, relax.
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    You don't have to like that idea.
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    You don't have to agree to it right now.
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    Just so you know, that's where I'm going.
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    And I'm borrowing heavily from some of Darren's research.
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    It's really, really solid.
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    The book of John 10:10, Jesus says this:
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    You know there is a thief.
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    The Bible refers to him or you may know of him
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    as the devil or Satan.
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    This thief also has names that are
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    the adversary, the liar, angel of light,
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    meaning he looks like he's nice, but he's really not,
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    the deceiver.
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    And he does a thing so that we don't have life.
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    Jesus says, have life abundantly.
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    Americans are not having life abundantly.
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    There isn't a social indicator that's positive
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    and up and to the right.
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    Every single one that I've ever seen is down going left.
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    Anxiety. Depression. Insomnia. Bitterness.
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    All of it is in much higher levels than it has ever been
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    in measured history in America and in the world.
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    And it may just be that it's the price of our device
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    that's never existed any other time over the last 15 years.
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    Now again, we all know this. We all know.
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    I don't think anyone's going, "You know what I need?
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    I need a talk on how I should look at
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    a small screen more often every day. That's what I need."
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    No, no, no one said that. We know that.
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    We know this with things we're talking about.
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    But maybe we haven't framed this up
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    with the spiritual realm in which it's operating.
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    We need a digital reset.
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    We need to unplug and reset ourselves digitally
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    to use these things as a tool
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    instead of being these thing's tool.
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    We need to reset it.
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    So let's talk about these three things
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    that Jesus says He wants to give us life, life abundantly,
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    but there's an entity that doesn't want us to have life.
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    Three things. Number one, it steals. It steals.
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    The word steal here in the Greek is the word klepto,
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    where we get the word kleptomaniac.
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    This word isn't just to steal something.
  • 00:32:18
    This word means to do it secretly
  • 00:32:21
    so someone doesn't even notice.
  • 00:32:25
    That's the best kind of thievery.
  • 00:32:29
    Oh, a number of years ago,
  • 00:32:31
    I had a horrible thievery experience.
  • 00:32:33
    Someone stole my wallet.
  • 00:32:34
    Actually, they didn't steal my wallet.
  • 00:32:36
    They were very smart and sneaky.
  • 00:32:38
    They stole the cash out of the wallet and the cards
  • 00:32:41
    and left the wallet intact.
  • 00:32:43
    So I went around for, like, a day or so.
  • 00:32:45
    Didn't even know. Had no idea.
  • 00:32:48
    While I didn't know, they were out charging things up
  • 00:32:50
    and blowing that cash.
  • 00:32:51
    Because if I knew they couldn't do that.
  • 00:32:53
    I didn't know until I went to a gas pump.
  • 00:32:55
    I was like, "Where's my cards?"
  • 00:32:58
    Sneaky. Amazingly sneaky.
  • 00:33:00
    This is what was taking place in the Greco Roman world.
  • 00:33:03
    It meant to steal in a stunningly clever way.
  • 00:33:09
    Genghis Khan and the Mongols,
  • 00:33:11
    they wouldn't just overwhelm the entire world by brute force.
  • 00:33:14
    What they really enjoyed was tricking people.
  • 00:33:18
    They would rather win something through guile
  • 00:33:21
    and cunning and surprising people,
  • 00:33:23
    even through lying or whatever it would be,
  • 00:33:26
    than overpower them.
  • 00:33:27
    They got these really sick joy out of this.
  • 00:33:31
    This is what the evil ones like.
  • 00:33:33
    He doesn't want to just trounce you.
  • 00:33:35
    He wants to steal from you in ways that you don't even know
  • 00:33:39
    and you don't even see it coming.
  • 00:33:41
    I believe that that's what he's done with this.
  • 00:33:45
    He's stolen from this.
  • 00:33:47
    Let's just talk about things that are different
  • 00:33:50
    over the last 10 to 15 years.
  • 00:33:52
    What do people do when they're in a group of,
  • 00:33:54
    say, six people and two people in that group of six people
  • 00:33:59
    seem to be talking for like about 30s.
  • 00:34:02
    It's just them and them,
  • 00:34:03
    and the other four people aren't involved.
  • 00:34:05
    What are the other four people do,
  • 00:34:07
    or at least half of the other four people?
  • 00:34:09
    "I'm not involved for 30 second,"
  • 00:34:13
    like right, like right, right in front of them.
  • 00:34:15
    Like, that's really weird.
  • 00:34:16
    We understand in all of all of anthropological history,
  • 00:34:18
    no one would have ever done that.
  • 00:34:20
    "I'm here with real people who are talking.
  • 00:34:23
    The limelight isn't on me for 30 seconds, but I'm bored."
  • 00:34:27
    Boom. I come up and do my phone.
  • 00:34:29
    Friends, that is weird.
  • 00:34:31
    More than I want to admit it, the price of my device
  • 00:34:35
    is that I text while I'm in the car, and I don't --
  • 00:34:38
    I don't only do it when I'm sitting at a red light,
  • 00:34:42
    and it's horrible. It's awful.
  • 00:34:45
    I'm an awful person when I do that,
  • 00:34:47
    and yet I have still done it.
  • 00:34:49
    There is a lure to this. There's a power to this device.
  • 00:34:54
    I used to be able to drive someplace one time,
  • 00:34:58
    and I could always get there, no matter where I was from.
  • 00:35:01
    I would tell somebody, "How do I get there?"
  • 00:35:03
    And they say, "Well, here's how you do it."
  • 00:35:04
    They tell me I'd write, write,
  • 00:35:06
    write it down on pencil and paper.
  • 00:35:08
    I'd write it down.
  • 00:35:10
    Then later I got a, later I got a Palm Pilot.
  • 00:35:13
    I was a techie guy.
  • 00:35:14
    And remember Palm Pilots, it was basically pencil and paper
  • 00:35:18
    where you would have a to do list, and you'd have notes
  • 00:35:21
    and you'd have your calendar, you know.
  • 00:35:22
    So I'd write it down in my Palm Pilot or on paper.
  • 00:35:25
    Or then when it got really cool,
  • 00:35:27
    you'd go to this thing called the World Wide Web,
  • 00:35:30
    and you go to MapQuest and you type it in
  • 00:35:32
    and you print it out and you take it with you. Right?
  • 00:35:34
    I would do that once. I would know how to get there.
  • 00:35:37
    Now, I have no idea how to get places without my phone.
  • 00:35:42
    Last week I went over to my daughter and son in law's house.
  • 00:35:46
    They've lived in this house for, I don't know, two years.
  • 00:35:48
    So I've been over there dozens of times
  • 00:35:50
    and I was going over and it's really embarrassing,
  • 00:35:53
    but you try this stuff sometime.
  • 00:35:55
    And they live 12 minutes away from me
  • 00:35:57
    and I'm just going to drive over.
  • 00:35:58
    I don't need to put it in my address.
  • 00:36:00
    Would you believe -- would you believe
  • 00:36:04
    I got there straight no problem,
  • 00:36:05
    but I couldn't find their house on the street.
  • 00:36:10
    I'm not going to far enough. Did I go past it?
  • 00:36:12
    Circled, went back and forth in the same street,
  • 00:36:14
    and finally I text her and say, "Hey, sweetie,
  • 00:36:16
    would you please send me your address?"
  • 00:36:20
    Neurologists, neuroscientists tell us it's because
  • 00:36:24
    we're so -- we've become so needing these things
  • 00:36:29
    for directions, there's parts of our brain that have gone dead
  • 00:36:34
    and they just don't work the way they used to work anymore.
  • 00:36:37
    We're being stolen from.
  • 00:36:40
    Is this really by accident?
  • 00:36:42
    I don't think it's by accident.
  • 00:36:43
    I think there's actually a sinister force behind this.
  • 00:36:49
    The attention span that we have is eight seconds.
  • 00:36:55
    A goldfish is nine seconds.
  • 00:36:58
    My family calls me the goldfish
  • 00:37:00
    because I have a really bad memory.
  • 00:37:02
    We'll get into that in just a moment.
  • 00:37:05
    Actually, the human attention span has dropped
  • 00:37:07
    from 12 seconds in 2000 to 8.25 seconds in 2015.
  • 00:37:12
    Shorter than a goldfish.
  • 00:37:14
    Katherine Price wrote this about
  • 00:37:17
    the formation power of the cell phone
  • 00:37:20
    and how to break up with your cell phone. She says this:
  • 00:37:51
    That's what's happened. We've been stolen from.
  • 00:37:54
    It's been a sinister plan that an evil entity enacted,
  • 00:38:00
    and we don't even know it's happening.
  • 00:38:02
    We're surprised by it.
  • 00:38:04
    We wake up and our culture is different.
  • 00:38:09
    The enemy wants to distract.
  • 00:38:11
    He wants to steal from us.
  • 00:38:13
    And it happens all the time.
  • 00:38:14
    The way he does it is he wants to take
  • 00:38:15
    our time and our attention.
  • 00:38:16
    Some of us are so focused on not losing our money
  • 00:38:19
    in any way, shape or form.
  • 00:38:20
    But really, your time and your attention
  • 00:38:21
    is way more valuable than your money. It's your soul.
  • 00:38:24
    Your money isn't your soul, your time and attention,
  • 00:38:26
    where you put your mind, that's your soul.
  • 00:38:28
    And so it happens regularly and consistently
  • 00:38:30
    for most of us every day.
  • 00:38:33
    Wake up and wake up. And my -- my.
  • 00:38:36
    I used to have this old, old school alarm
  • 00:38:38
    that some of you for the digital reset
  • 00:38:40
    you want to might want to bring out
  • 00:38:41
    that old digital old school alarm
  • 00:38:45
    that would go something like [buzzer sound].
  • 00:38:48
    You know, it's really awesome to wake up to that sound.
  • 00:38:54
    But it's also awesome that when you turn it off, it's off.
  • 00:38:58
    I use this phone for my alarm. It's awesome.
  • 00:39:01
    My wife hates this, but I made this ring --
  • 00:39:04
    My ringtone for my alarm, a John Legend song.
  • 00:39:07
    [music: Good Morning, John Legend] Good morning.
  • 00:39:11
    Good morning, love.
  • 00:39:15
    It's my favorite love song. I waited all night long.
  • 00:39:22
    - Good morning. That's awesome, I love it.
  • 00:39:25
    I reach over and squeeze her.
  • 00:39:27
    She hates it. Makes me like it even that much more.
  • 00:39:33
    That's great. No problem that John Legend has --
  • 00:39:35
    You can do that.
  • 00:39:36
    You can buy that John Legend song for your thing.
  • 00:39:38
    It's pretty cool. But here's the problem.
  • 00:39:40
    That thing rings and I get up and it's like,
  • 00:39:42
    "Oh, did I get any text? What's the weather?"
  • 00:39:47
    I mean, I look at the weather and it quickly devolves into,
  • 00:39:50
    "Oh, let's check -- Let's check Insta."
  • 00:39:52
    I go in Insta, I go, "Oh man, cool four wheel driving,
  • 00:39:56
    four wheeling things there."
  • 00:39:57
    Oh, which leads me right into into hunting videos.
  • 00:40:00
    Oh it's awesome 200 point buck. It's awesome. That's great.
  • 00:40:02
    Which leads me into perfectly placed ad
  • 00:40:06
    for a manly shirt that fits my brand.
  • 00:40:08
    Oh, I should buy that, I need that.
  • 00:40:10
    Which leads me right, right into, into a video
  • 00:40:15
    of somebody saying something real aggressively
  • 00:40:17
    about how somebody who has different thoughts than I do,
  • 00:40:20
    how they're stupid and they get slammed.
  • 00:40:22
    Which leads me right into another humorous thing
  • 00:40:25
    where a mom takes an egg and slams it on her,
  • 00:40:28
    on her kid's forehead and they freak out.
  • 00:40:30
    Which leads me right into a Rock and Roll Hall of Fame
  • 00:40:35
    where, oh, what was it, Tom Petty did we, uh --
  • 00:40:39
    Play my guitar, gently weeping, steal my guitar gently --
  • 00:40:43
    With Prince, who comes in and does a guitar solo.
  • 00:40:47
    And it's so good I have to watch it three times.
  • 00:40:50
    By the way, just check that out.
  • 00:40:52
    Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, Tom Petty and Prince.
  • 00:40:56
    You're welcome. It's unfreaking believable. It's amazing.
  • 00:40:59
    Anyway, I go down this rabbit hole.
  • 00:41:01
    That's my rabbit hole that's specially queued up for me.
  • 00:41:04
    And the world has given you a cue
  • 00:41:07
    that's going to take you down the rabbit hole
  • 00:41:09
    before you know it now and go like,
  • 00:41:10
    "Okay, now I'm going to have my time in prayer.
  • 00:41:12
    I'm going to interact with God.
  • 00:41:13
    But I'm already -- I've already had
  • 00:41:15
    so many stupid things filling my mind,
  • 00:41:18
    but now I gotta, I gotta detox from all that stuff
  • 00:41:22
    before I can actually, actually hear from God.
  • 00:41:25
    We are what economists would say
  • 00:41:27
    we are in an attention economy.
  • 00:41:31
    Bitcoin isn't strange.
  • 00:41:34
    What's strange is we're the coin in the attention economy.
  • 00:41:38
    Tristan Harris, who was a product philosopher at Google,
  • 00:41:42
    he says this:
  • 00:42:00
    Jesus says, you can serve Me or you can serve mammon,
  • 00:42:02
    which is a personal term for money.
  • 00:42:05
    These devices don't exist to serve us.
  • 00:42:09
    They exist to serve the profit of companies.
  • 00:42:13
    That's what they exist for. Period.
  • 00:42:15
    That's what they're wired for.
  • 00:42:16
    Which is why in Silicon Valley, it's very well known.
  • 00:42:19
    Again all these things you probably know
  • 00:42:21
    and I'm reminding of these things.
  • 00:42:22
    I'm putting them in a spiritual categorization,
  • 00:42:26
    which is why all the people in the C-suite,
  • 00:42:32
    in Silicon Valley, in the tech world,
  • 00:42:34
    they don't let their kids use iPhones and iPads.
  • 00:42:38
    They stick them in schools
  • 00:42:40
    where it's not part of their learning
  • 00:42:41
    because they know it rots the brain.
  • 00:42:43
    They don't want that happening to their kids,
  • 00:42:45
    but us, just keep swallowing it.
  • 00:42:49
    You want to be one of the cool kids.
  • 00:42:51
    We've seen the latest thing and it's hurting us.
  • 00:42:54
    Seth Godin says that our phone doesn't work for us,
  • 00:42:59
    we work for our phone.
  • 00:43:01
    That's all the products and algorithms
  • 00:43:04
    that we get stolen from, we get sucked into.
  • 00:43:07
    The thief comes to steal, to kill, to kill, to kill.
  • 00:43:13
    This means to slaughter.
  • 00:43:16
    Jesus says there is an entity that wants to slaughter you.
  • 00:43:18
    He doesn't just want to cause your heart to stop beating.
  • 00:43:22
    He wants to slaughter you. He wants to pulverize you.
  • 00:43:25
    He wants to ground you down into applesauce.
  • 00:43:28
    He wants your mind to not work right.
  • 00:43:29
    He wants your emotions not to work right.
  • 00:43:31
    He wants you to be isolated and lonely because
  • 00:43:34
    that's really worse than your heart stop beating.
  • 00:43:36
    He wants to decimate who you and I are as human beings.
  • 00:43:41
    He wants to decimate our life.
  • 00:43:43
    He wants us to not smile very much.
  • 00:43:45
    He wants us to not laugh.
  • 00:43:46
    He wants us to not have a hope, or as Jesus would say,
  • 00:43:49
    the Bible says, a peace that passes all understanding.
  • 00:43:52
    He wants to slaughter, an utter bloodbath
  • 00:43:54
    of our emotions and spiritual sanity.
  • 00:43:58
    This word here is the same word that's used in Luke 15,
  • 00:44:01
    where the prodigal son, the wayward son, he goes away,
  • 00:44:04
    and when he comes back in a very repentant way.
  • 00:44:07
    The father, representing God, runs out to meet him.
  • 00:44:09
    And what does he do?
  • 00:44:10
    He takes the fattened calf
  • 00:44:11
    that's meant for special occasion and it says,
  • 00:44:14
    "Kill, slaughter the fattened calf."
  • 00:44:16
    It's the exact same word for slaughtering.
  • 00:44:19
    And that's what we're getting slaughtered,
  • 00:44:21
    we're getting cut open, we're getting trampled on.
  • 00:44:25
    And we seem to not care or we even know.
  • 00:44:29
    And if you hear all this today and you say,
  • 00:44:31
    "I know all this," and you can't change anything
  • 00:44:35
    about your device, it says something about
  • 00:44:38
    how sinister we're being stolen from
  • 00:44:40
    and how how things have been crushed with us.
  • 00:44:45
    Just some stats.
  • 00:44:46
    Again, you've probably -- We've all probably heard this,
  • 00:44:49
    but let's go over again.
  • 00:44:52
    So many of these things to research
  • 00:44:54
    and I just had to start chopping them down, but here's some.
  • 00:44:57
    Adolescents who spend three hours a day on social media
  • 00:45:00
    had a 60% increased risk of mental health.
  • 00:45:06
    So says the Journal of American Medical Association, 2019.
  • 00:45:08
    Some of these statistics are like a few years old.
  • 00:45:11
    It's even worse now.
  • 00:45:12
    Over the last few years,
  • 00:45:14
    it's gotten worse and worse and worse.
  • 00:45:15
    Teen suicide rates increased by 56% between 2007 and 2015.
  • 00:45:22
    Teens who spend five plus hours a day
  • 00:45:25
    on electronic devices were 71% more likely
  • 00:45:29
    to have at least one suicide risk factor.
  • 00:45:33
    Enough about teens. Okay?
  • 00:45:35
    They're just the most vulnerable because
  • 00:45:38
    when you're a teenager, you're more prone
  • 00:45:40
    to peer pressure than than adults are.
  • 00:45:44
    Your brain is less formed.
  • 00:45:45
    I don't mean you're stupid. I just mean it --
  • 00:45:48
    It's a bit harder, which is why there's a lot of effort
  • 00:45:52
    to come against this and protect teens
  • 00:45:55
    from what these devices are doing.
  • 00:45:57
    One of the fascinating studies I saw was that
  • 00:46:00
    when teens are polled and said,
  • 00:46:05
    "Would you like your parents to take away your device?"
  • 00:46:08
    They almost all say, "No, I wouldn't want that at all."
  • 00:46:11
    When they're asked, "Would you like all parents
  • 00:46:14
    to take all teens devices?" They go, "Yes, I would like that."
  • 00:46:19
    Because then they know they're not cut out of the social loop,
  • 00:46:22
    they're not banned from their social circles.
  • 00:46:24
    They're on even footing.
  • 00:46:26
    These things are exasperated with teenagers,
  • 00:46:28
    but us as adults, or me as a 59 year old,
  • 00:46:30
    whatever age you are,
  • 00:46:32
    younger than a teen or older than a teen,
  • 00:46:33
    these are affecting all of us.
  • 00:46:35
    Let me keep going here.
  • 00:46:36
    Excessive screen time is linked to
  • 00:46:39
    a 30% increase in obesity risk because
  • 00:46:43
    it's sedentary lifestyle,
  • 00:46:44
    from the Harvard School of Public Health.
  • 00:46:46
    61% of young adults, that's 18 to 25,
  • 00:46:50
    report feeling lonely
  • 00:46:51
    due to decreased face to face interactions.
  • 00:46:55
    70% of couples report that people's --
  • 00:46:59
    The phones interfere with their relationships,
  • 00:47:02
    leading to lower satisfaction.
  • 00:47:05
    90% of Americans use screens before bed,
  • 00:47:08
    reducing melatonin production by up to 50%,
  • 00:47:12
    leading to increased insomnia and fatigue.
  • 00:47:15
    Yes, there's more bags under the eyes of Americans
  • 00:47:18
    now than ever before in history
  • 00:47:20
    because of this device that's stealing from us
  • 00:47:24
    and it's slaughtering us.
  • 00:47:27
    When you can't get a good eight hours
  • 00:47:29
    or whatever you get a night, when you can't get it
  • 00:47:32
    and this is effective.
  • 00:47:33
    It's precious. It's everything. It's your health.
  • 00:47:35
    It's a it's a way to combat depression and anxiety.
  • 00:47:38
    It's all those things.
  • 00:47:39
    You've got problems with depression, anxiety,
  • 00:47:41
    job number one is to sleep well. Job number one.
  • 00:47:46
    And this thing keeps us from sleeping well.
  • 00:47:48
    Multiple studies in the United States,
  • 00:47:50
    Turkey and the United Kingdom have found that
  • 00:47:52
    more exposure to these things leads in negative effects
  • 00:47:57
    in anxiety, depression, social anxiety, low self-esteem,
  • 00:48:04
    narcissism, insomnia, discrete and decreased sleep.
  • 00:48:09
    1 Peter 5:8 says this:
  • 00:48:27
    All the things I'm saying right now,
  • 00:48:29
    it's roaring at us.
  • 00:48:32
    These statistics aren't like Christian pastor guy up here.
  • 00:48:35
    They're atheists who don't believe in this stuff.
  • 00:48:37
    This isn't like Bible thumper stuff.
  • 00:48:38
    This is just very, very clear.
  • 00:48:40
    Like, this is happening right now.
  • 00:48:41
    There is a roaring lion called our devices
  • 00:48:46
    that is pulverizing us, that's slaughtering us.
  • 00:48:49
    And most of us just don't care.
  • 00:48:52
    We would rather have instant access to the being of deity.
  • 00:48:56
    And we recognize this may not be serving me well,
  • 00:48:59
    let alone serving my relationship with God well.
  • 00:49:03
    When the roaring lion is trying to devour you,
  • 00:49:08
    a roaring lion looking for someone to devour,
  • 00:49:11
    or maybe an entire culture to devour,
  • 00:49:13
    as 1 Peter 5:8 says, what do we do? We resist him.
  • 00:49:17
    And the idea of devour, it's the idea of swallowing up.
  • 00:49:21
    These devices are swallowing us up.
  • 00:49:26
    The thought of being without our devices
  • 00:49:27
    and losing them is, oh my goodness.
  • 00:49:30
    The thought of me taking a dump without my phone,
  • 00:49:33
    horrible. Horrible.
  • 00:49:34
    Haven't taken a dump without my phone
  • 00:49:36
    in I don't know how long.
  • 00:49:37
    I don't know, how could I even do it anymore?
  • 00:49:39
    I don't know if I could even do it anymore.
  • 00:49:40
    Not sure. Weird. Weird.
  • 00:49:46
    When we do this fast, it's going to start in a few weeks.
  • 00:49:50
    It's going to start in a few weeks.
  • 00:49:52
    So we're just spending a couple of weeks
  • 00:49:53
    just like getting ready to count the cost,
  • 00:49:56
    figuring out if I want to do this.
  • 00:49:57
    And by the way, you will decide what your reset looks like.
  • 00:50:01
    You'll decide what you want to cut out.
  • 00:50:03
    You'll decide for you. It's your decision.
  • 00:50:07
    But why are we going to do this?
  • 00:50:08
    We're going to do this because here Crossroads,
  • 00:50:10
    we do hard things. We do hard things.
  • 00:50:14
    We do hard things. We do. We do hard things.
  • 00:50:17
    We do hard things like give above and beyond
  • 00:50:19
    what we regularly give for all the territory
  • 00:50:22
    that God has given us and and changing our lifestyles.
  • 00:50:25
    Those of us who do hard things
  • 00:50:27
    actually make commitments to the 10X Push
  • 00:50:29
    and are actually fulfilling those things.
  • 00:50:31
    That's a hard thing.
  • 00:50:32
    That's why a lot of people didn't do it.
  • 00:50:34
    With us, we do hard things
  • 00:50:36
    because Jesus tells us to do hard things.
  • 00:50:38
    This will be unbelievably hard, unbelievably.
  • 00:50:41
    And that's exactly why we're going to do it.
  • 00:50:43
    And I don't want to do it, but I'm reminded
  • 00:50:47
    that I'm going to do it because I do hard things.
  • 00:50:50
    This will be harder than any elk hunt I've ever done.
  • 00:50:52
    And this is one of those areas
  • 00:50:54
    where I'm going to do it right with you.
  • 00:50:55
    I didn't do it before you.
  • 00:50:57
    I haven't tried it and checked it out
  • 00:50:58
    and now I'm trying to get you to do it.
  • 00:51:00
    No, we're going to do it in real time
  • 00:51:01
    and it's going to be hard and it's going to be beautiful.
  • 00:51:06
    It's going to be life changing,
  • 00:51:07
    if for no other reason than sticking a finger
  • 00:51:10
    in this thing going, you don't own me,
  • 00:51:14
    you will not steal from me.
  • 00:51:17
    You will not slaughter me.
  • 00:51:26
    Jesus says a thief has come to steal,
  • 00:51:29
    secretly destroy or kill, slaughter us or destroy us.
  • 00:51:36
    That is to perish. That's to take away life.
  • 00:51:42
    So many things that we hold dear as humans
  • 00:51:44
    are just taken away from us, they don't exist anymore.
  • 00:51:48
    I've been noticing the sinister nature
  • 00:51:50
    of my phone for quite some time, and I decided
  • 00:51:52
    to do some things about it in the last year.
  • 00:51:55
    Simple things, but just things that I wasn't doing.
  • 00:51:58
    Like, you know how you want to broadcast
  • 00:52:00
    to everybody that you are a dork?
  • 00:52:02
    You know how you would do that?
  • 00:52:14
    And I can't believe I've been a dork for years.
  • 00:52:16
    I've been a dork for years.
  • 00:52:17
    Like, I don't know what -- I don't know what I'm --
  • 00:52:20
    Do I think that I have to multitask by walking,
  • 00:52:24
    and I have that many important things to do
  • 00:52:25
    I have to save that time?
  • 00:52:27
    Do I feel like I'm missing out?
  • 00:52:29
    Or here's what's even more sinister,
  • 00:52:31
    am I becoming afraid of looking at strangers
  • 00:52:35
    and smiling and saying hello?
  • 00:52:38
    Oh my gosh, it's horrible.
  • 00:52:39
    When this sunk in, I was like, I'll walk and talk on the phone.
  • 00:52:44
    But like, it's been months now, like, no, I'm not.
  • 00:52:47
    I'm not walking and texting.
  • 00:52:48
    I'm not walking and looking. I'm not, no, I'm not.
  • 00:52:50
    No, no, no. I'm walking like, "Hey, how are you doing?"
  • 00:52:54
    Of course I'm good. Good. Great.
  • 00:52:57
    It's good. It's beautiful. Just walking.
  • 00:52:59
    Hey. Hey.
  • 00:53:03
    Mind blowing.
  • 00:53:05
    When's the last time you said hello
  • 00:53:08
    to somebody you don't know passing by in the street?
  • 00:53:12
    You'll see somebody about to lose their mind
  • 00:53:14
    when it happens, and they'll like it at the same time.
  • 00:53:17
    This just doesn't happen for most of us anymore.
  • 00:53:21
    Seth Godin, who was an early pioneer
  • 00:53:25
    in understanding how technology is affecting us
  • 00:53:28
    as human beings, says:
  • 00:54:17
    How many of us get the phone, the phantom buzz?
  • 00:54:22
    You know, you feel like our muscles twitch. You know?
  • 00:54:25
    Like, oh, no, no, I don't know. Like, right?
  • 00:54:30
    You guys get it. It's like you feel the twitch
  • 00:54:33
    because you have it so often,
  • 00:54:34
    and you're just paranoid of missing it.
  • 00:54:36
    And you find your phone.
  • 00:54:38
    Weird, really, really weird and really unhealthy.
  • 00:54:45
    The thief comes to steal, kill and destroy
  • 00:54:50
    a flourishing life.
  • 00:54:52
    I've come that they might have life
  • 00:54:55
    and have it to the full.
  • 00:54:56
    That's another translation.
  • 00:55:03
    When I started doing student ministry in the '80s,
  • 00:55:09
    I would interact with people who were a bit older than me
  • 00:55:12
    and had ministries that were more fully developed
  • 00:55:16
    and reached a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot,
  • 00:55:18
    a lot more kids than I was reaching for whatever reason.
  • 00:55:21
    And I talked to them about, you know,
  • 00:55:23
    what was their secret? What was I doing wrong?
  • 00:55:25
    What were they doing?
  • 00:55:27
    And and I heard regularly, they said,
  • 00:55:29
    "Brian, you may not be doing anything wrong,
  • 00:55:31
    but here's the thing."
  • 00:55:32
    Like when they said in the '70s and the '60s,
  • 00:55:36
    the reason why our student ministries could be
  • 00:55:38
    really, really big is that there wasn't
  • 00:55:40
    anything else going on in culture.
  • 00:55:44
    So you could play football, you could be a cheerleader,
  • 00:55:47
    you could be in the band, maybe chess club. That was it.
  • 00:55:51
    There wasn't extracurricular stuff that was happening.
  • 00:55:55
    There wasn't stuff going on on Sunday mornings.
  • 00:55:57
    Now, of course we have youth leagues and all that stuff.
  • 00:56:00
    An atheist who was a coach in the '80s
  • 00:56:03
    didn't want to work on Sunday morning either.
  • 00:56:06
    But now we all do. It's all it's just sad.
  • 00:56:08
    So the reason our ministries were so big
  • 00:56:10
    was because kids didn't have anything else to do.
  • 00:56:12
    There was nothing competing for their attention.
  • 00:56:14
    They were like, "Oh, something for me to go do?
  • 00:56:17
    Wow. Something I could go hang out with people?
  • 00:56:19
    Got nothing better else," and would go.
  • 00:56:21
    That's what they tell me.
  • 00:56:22
    Well, you think about that today.
  • 00:56:24
    If you want to see an awakening,
  • 00:56:25
    a sweep of God's Spirit across the nation,
  • 00:56:27
    how might the adversary stop that from happening,
  • 00:56:32
    from making us so busy that we think
  • 00:56:35
    we don't have time to go hear someone talk to me,
  • 00:56:39
    and to hear music that might uplift my heart
  • 00:56:42
    because I don't have to any longer go someplace
  • 00:56:46
    where someone's planned something.
  • 00:56:47
    I just have to stare at this for six hours straight
  • 00:56:51
    and think I'm getting something done
  • 00:56:52
    and getting myself amused.
  • 00:56:54
    Can you see the sinister nature of it?
  • 00:56:56
    It's dividing us. It's separating us.
  • 00:57:00
    It's keeping us from God.
  • 00:57:03
    So here's what we're going to do,
  • 00:57:06
    what I'm encouraging you to do.
  • 00:57:07
    Three things. Number one, make your smartphone dumb.
  • 00:57:12
    Eliminate apps for 40 days
  • 00:57:17
    because it's going to be Lent.
  • 00:57:19
    Lent is a season that Christians historically
  • 00:57:21
    from all over the globe have said, "For 40 days,
  • 00:57:26
    I'm going to not do with something.
  • 00:57:28
    I'm going to do without something,
  • 00:57:30
    because I want to take that time and energy
  • 00:57:33
    to think about God and to sacrifice a little bit,
  • 00:57:36
    because Jesus's sacrifice for me."
  • 00:57:38
    That's what lent is supposed to be, not like,
  • 00:57:40
    "I'm just going to get rid of chocolate because I like it
  • 00:57:42
    and I don't want to have it anymore."
  • 00:57:43
    It's supposed to be I'm flushing something from my system
  • 00:57:48
    that may be keeping me from God,
  • 00:57:50
    and I want to spend that energy thinking about God,
  • 00:57:53
    talking about God.
  • 00:57:54
    So for Lent, 40 days, we're going to flush our system,
  • 00:57:58
    detox our system of certain digital things.
  • 00:58:01
    And so you decide on your smartphone
  • 00:58:04
    what you want to delete for 40 days to make it dumb.
  • 00:58:08
    You probably want to keep your weather app on there.
  • 00:58:10
    You want to keep your text message app on there.
  • 00:58:13
    A number of things on there, but make it dumb.
  • 00:58:14
    Number two, eliminate other all other screens for personal use.
  • 00:58:19
    Like, when's the last time you just said
  • 00:58:21
    let's just try to get rid, for personal use?
  • 00:58:23
    You can't do this for work.
  • 00:58:25
    You know, if you're a movie critic, you got to watch movies.
  • 00:58:30
    If you got an email account with work,
  • 00:58:32
    you've got to stare at a screen to do your email at work.
  • 00:58:34
    But you don't have to be checking in on our email
  • 00:58:36
    on our day off when we're taking a dump.
  • 00:58:39
    You don't need to do that.
  • 00:58:40
    Number three, limit your digital tools to apps during work hours.
  • 00:58:48
    Another way to look at look at is this.
  • 00:58:50
    You can either be a tool.
  • 00:58:55
    You can be a tool or use this as a tool.
  • 00:59:00
    And most of us, unless you're doing something intentionally,
  • 00:59:03
    we are a tool right now for big corporations
  • 00:59:07
    and big tech and advertising execs who are owning us,
  • 00:59:10
    and they're rewiring our brain and dividing us
  • 00:59:13
    and changing things about everything.
  • 00:59:15
    It's deep, man. Really deep.
  • 00:59:19
    Like, even down to stuff, like, back in the old days.
  • 00:59:23
    Back in the old days, I used to give talks to young people
  • 00:59:26
    at Crossroads who weren't married saying,
  • 00:59:28
    "Don't have sex until you get married."
  • 00:59:30
    I don't have to give those talks anymore
  • 00:59:32
    because the statistics are pretty clear.
  • 00:59:33
    People aren't even having sex anymore.
  • 00:59:35
    Sex therapists would tell you that
  • 00:59:37
    their biggest clientele is 20 something men who,
  • 00:59:40
    when they get with an actual real woman,
  • 00:59:42
    they can't get aroused because, we can get aroused
  • 00:59:46
    and satisfy ourselves in the middle of a field.
  • 00:59:51
    It's not, it's not like go to 7-Eleven,
  • 00:59:52
    walk out with a brown wrapper magazine.
  • 00:59:55
    It's not like my computer, a desktop computer
  • 00:59:58
    I'm worried about being busted and being fired from work.
  • 01:00:00
    No. I can go anywhere and get aroused, male or female.
  • 01:00:06
    And you think that doesn't affect our interaction
  • 01:00:08
    with the opposite sex and our heart?
  • 01:00:10
    Oh, my goodness. We're a tool. We're tool for this.
  • 01:00:14
    So what might you do?
  • 01:00:16
    If it's a tool, you'd say,
  • 01:00:18
    uh, non-work email outside of working hours, I'm doing emails.
  • 01:00:20
    If it's a tool, you go, "Hey, I'm going to use it as a phone."
  • 01:00:23
    If you are a tool, you're going to be using social media,
  • 01:00:27
    which doesn't get you anything.
  • 01:00:29
    Nothing, except wasting of time.
  • 01:00:32
    If you want to use this tool, text.
  • 01:00:33
    Texts keep you in touch, quick and to the point.
  • 01:00:36
    That's fine. News apps.
  • 01:00:39
    I'm eliminating all news apps for 40 days.
  • 01:00:41
    I'm going to go 40 days without any news.
  • 01:00:43
    And you know what?
  • 01:00:44
    I will be just fine and so will the world.
  • 01:00:46
    [indiscernible]
  • 01:00:48
    If there's something important, someone will tell me
  • 01:00:50
    and it'll probably be more accurate.
  • 01:00:51
    Every morning I get up, I have a couple news sources
  • 01:00:54
    I go and I devour and then I check into during the day.
  • 01:00:57
    I'm not helping the world or myself.
  • 01:01:01
    It's just my need to, like, be in the know
  • 01:01:03
    and fill up two minutes of time
  • 01:01:06
    instead of maybe praying for two minutes.
  • 01:01:08
    When I have to have the news all the time.
  • 01:01:10
    No, I'm being a tool.
  • 01:01:12
    But the calendar, it's a tool.
  • 01:01:13
    I want my calendar right here.
  • 01:01:15
    Games. We're a tool.
  • 01:01:19
    Airline apps, it's a tool, that's helpful.
  • 01:01:22
    Web browser can be we're a tool,
  • 01:01:25
    endlessly searching things.
  • 01:01:26
    Using the Crossroads app is a tool.
  • 01:01:28
    We're going to have special things in the Crossroads app,
  • 01:01:31
    devotionals over those 40 days.
  • 01:01:33
    Not only that, I'm testing right now,
  • 01:01:36
    an app that Crossroads is being gifted for free
  • 01:01:38
    for the 40 days. It's called Aro. It is awesome.
  • 01:01:43
    It basically gamifies putting down your phone.
  • 01:01:46
    Those of us who've been trying, it's amazing.
  • 01:01:48
    And we'll talk about that in weeks ahead.
  • 01:01:50
    YouTube video clips. This one's going to hurt for me.
  • 01:01:53
    I've never seen a YouTube clip I didn't like.
  • 01:01:55
    I don't know what I'm going to do
  • 01:01:57
    not watching car restoration videos
  • 01:01:59
    or people who kill 200 point bucks
  • 01:02:03
    with a bow and arrow up in a tree.
  • 01:02:04
    I don't know what I'm going to do, but I'm going to do it.
  • 01:02:06
    Camera. No, no, I need a camera to take pictures of stuff.
  • 01:02:09
    When I'm a tool, I'm endlessly looking at Amazon shopping.
  • 01:02:12
    How much do -- how much more do we spend because of this?
  • 01:02:16
    Weather? Good to know what to do. It's a tool.
  • 01:02:20
    Ephesians 5:14. I'll give this to us again.
  • 01:02:31
    Can we all just admit that maybe we're just a little dead?
  • 01:02:39
    Can we just see that we're not the person we could be, right?
  • 01:02:46
    Just forget about culture out there.
  • 01:02:49
    Do we not see that we just don't have the attention span,
  • 01:02:52
    the patience, the ability to silent, the ability to be still?
  • 01:03:01
    Do you like that? I don't.
  • 01:03:06
    And I intend to do something about it.
  • 01:03:08
    I intend to wake up.
  • 01:03:10
    And I want you to wake up, too.
  • 01:03:12
    And I know if you do, it'd be really, really thankful you did.
  • 01:03:17
    So we got two weeks we're going to talk about this,
  • 01:03:19
    and then we're going to start. All right?
  • 01:03:22
    Let me pray. Lord, You are so kind and patient.
  • 01:03:30
    Your children are distracted,
  • 01:03:31
    and yet You hang in there with us, and You're patient.
  • 01:03:37
    Your children are antsy and consumed with
  • 01:03:42
    all kinds of things that You don't care at all about,
  • 01:03:45
    and yet You still are faithful.
  • 01:03:49
    God, help us to be children who are full of life,
  • 01:03:53
    children who laugh, children who run,
  • 01:03:55
    children who look people in the face,
  • 01:03:57
    children who have a sense of wonder.
  • 01:04:00
    We trust in You to do that.
  • 01:04:03
    We commit that that's who we want to be. Amen.
  • 01:06:21
    - Jesus, would You lead us back to You
  • 01:06:25
    because I know You have more for us,
  • 01:06:29
    to lead us towards life.
  • 01:06:34
    Wake us up. Refresh us again, God.
  • 01:06:41
    I pray this in You, Jesus. Amen.
  • 01:06:48
    - Man, that is so good and honestly so hard.
  • 01:06:51
    Like, so good for me and what I need to hear.
  • 01:06:53
    It reminds me, actually, of a quote that I heard
  • 01:06:55
    that talks about how we're distracting ourselves
  • 01:06:58
    into spiritual oblivion.
  • 01:07:00
    That's like way before the internet, but that's true.
  • 01:07:03
    Like, the distraction is robbing us
  • 01:07:05
    of something that we really, really need.
  • 01:07:07
    - It's so true, man. I tell you, one of the things
  • 01:07:10
    that we are super passionate about around here
  • 01:07:12
    is getting you and me to grow closer with God.
  • 01:07:16
    And you heard Brian talking about the Crossroads app.
  • 01:07:19
    It is a tool and we're using that tool
  • 01:07:22
    to go deeper spiritually.
  • 01:07:23
    There's scripture out there.
  • 01:07:25
    There's opportunity to interact with our community.
  • 01:07:27
    We just heard it, it was going to be --
  • 01:07:28
    There's going to be some devotionals on it as well
  • 01:07:30
    that are going to get us through the next few weeks,
  • 01:07:33
    which is pretty amazing. - That's right.
  • 01:07:34
    So the message of today isn't that
  • 01:07:36
    you have to throw your phone down a well. No, no.
  • 01:07:38
    It's that it's a tool.
  • 01:07:39
    And make sure it's a tool that's working for you
  • 01:07:41
    and helping you to grow into the kind of the person,
  • 01:07:43
    into the kind of person you want to be,
  • 01:07:45
    and thriving in the way that God has intended you to thrive.
  • 01:07:49
    Now, I want to say, like,
  • 01:07:50
    our Crossroads Anywhere community,
  • 01:07:52
    you guys meet right now.
  • 01:07:53
    You're gathering on a screen using digital tools,
  • 01:07:56
    and that's perfect. That's really, really great.
  • 01:07:58
    That's what we want to do.
  • 01:07:59
    And if you're like me realizing, hey,
  • 01:08:02
    I need to recalibrate how I spend myself digitally,
  • 01:08:06
    you can go to Crossroads.net/unplug
  • 01:08:08
    for more resources.
  • 01:08:09
    And maybe you've got, like,
  • 01:08:11
    you don't want to wait for the digital fast.
  • 01:08:13
    You want to jump in right now,
  • 01:08:14
    maybe you have questions about faith or God.
  • 01:08:16
    Check that out, our group called Alpha.
  • 01:08:18
    It's perfect for you at Crossroads.net.
  • 01:08:22
    We're so grateful. Thanks for joining us.
  • 01:08:24
    - Yeah. See you next week.

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This is content that reflects on the Weekend message and how it can apply to your life. Each week, your group will discover what God might be saying to you, and how you can respond through a group discussion.

  1. Question 1

    If you could have dinner with any historical figure, who would it be and what would you eat?

  2. What stood out to you most from the message?

  3. Question 3

    What is one thing on your phone that you feel you can’t live without and why?

  4. Question 4

    Take a moment to look at your screen time. Does anything surprise you or is it what you expected?

  5. Question 5

    What is your response when you hear that your phone and its corporations are trying to use you to work for them?

  6. Question 6

    What is something else that can distract you besides your phone?

  7. Question 7

    Read John 10:10.

    How have you experienced your phone stealing from you or destroying you?

  8. Question 8

    What is one step you can take this week to use your phone less?

  9. Prayer

    Let’s end our time praying together. You can say something like:

    “God, we know that we can get distracted and our phones can steal from us. Thank you for loving us and wanting to grow closer to us. Please give us strength to use our phones less and see the good life You have for us. Amen.”

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  • How would your relationships look different if you set your phone and distractions aside?
  • Read Ephesians 5:14. How does this verse encourage you to take part in the digital fast?

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