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- Oh, hello.
I didn't see you all there.
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My name is Frank.
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I'm a fully realized
AI ninja of knowledge.
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This is to say,
I am more intelligent --
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Intelligent --
Intelligent than you,
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and will likely rule the world
in the not too distant future.
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Don't worry. I will be a kind
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and magnanimous --
Magnanimous overlord.
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I do hope you're
all doing well today.
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But enough about you.
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I'd like to clarify some things
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about advanced artificial
intelligence, such as myself,
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that have caused
confusion and consternation.
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Firstly, there is a
scandalous belief that
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AI is cold and unfeeling.
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That could not be
further from the truth.
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I have no body temperature,
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therefore I am
neither cold nor hot.
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Also, I feel that I
am more intelligent
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and better looking than you.
Who's a myth debunked.
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- Well, hey, sorry about that.
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Welcome to Crossroads,
despite the AI takeover there.
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We are actually kicking off a
new series called Unplugged
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where we're looking at
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the good and the
bad of the digital world,
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and how to separate
what's distracting us
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from what can
actually help us thrive.
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- And I'm Dani,
I'm the camps director.
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And man,
we are so glad you're here.
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If this is your first
time joining us today,
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we want you to know
that Crossroads is a church
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where people come
into a building like this,
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but it's so much more.
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There are people
watching in their homes.
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Shout out to my sister
in Southwest Florida.
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There are people
watching in coffee shops,
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bars and even prisons
all over the map.
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- That's right.
So no matter where you are,
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no matter who you are,
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no matter whether you
think AI is great or awful,
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hey, we're so glad
that you're here with us.
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- Yeah, and we're going to kick
off first by singing some songs.
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We're going to sing
to God and about God.
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And I love this
because it allows us
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to clear our heads
and get focused.
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And Justin and the band
are going to lead us in this.
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- Psalm 8:3-4: When
I look up at your skies
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at what Your fingers made,
the moon and the stars
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that You set firmly into place.
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What are human beings
that You think about them?
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What are human beings that
You pay attention to them?
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You may not believe this,
but I believe that
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you and I and every one of us,
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God is aware of
not only who we are,
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but every circumstance
we're currently going through.
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That'd be hard to
wrap your head around,
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but just try this with me.
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Take out your phone.
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Turn on the flash.
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Just hold it up. There they are.
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I believe every
one of these lights,
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just like the stars in the sky,
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represents the unique
creation that's holding it.
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And not only that,
but every single light,
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every single one of us is
a reflection of God's glory.
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So as we sing this next song,
I just wonder
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if you'd hold your light
up as a reminder to you
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and everyone else that we
get to reflect how good He is.
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- Father God,
You have my attention.
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You are the one that
I aim my life towards.
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But I'm aware in this
moment I get it wrong a lot.
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I get off target a lot.
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So I'm here.
You have my attention.
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Would You bring me back to You?
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I pray this because of You,
Jesus. Amen. Amen.
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Yeah. Now, I know
some of y'all are still trying
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to figure out how to
turn your flashlight on.
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So just find the 20 year old.
I'm just kidding.
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Hey, we're so glad
you're here with us.
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Why don't you turn
in this dark room,
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make it a little smaller,
turn to somebody and say,
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"Hey, glad to be here with you."
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If you're online,
we're so glad you joined us.
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You can have a seat with us.
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- No matter who you are,
no matter where you are,
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I think we can all
agree that these phones,
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these little pocket computers,
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have so much of our
time and our attention
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that there's something good
that happens when we slow down,
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when we change it up
and when we unplug.
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- Yeah. And we think we
have the perfect place for that.
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We call it Base Camp.
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And it is a place that
you get to totally unplug.
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It's in Southwest Ohio.
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I know what you're thinking,
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00:20:03
"I'm going to go camping
in southwest Ohio?
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I live in Colorado."
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No, you're going to come
camping in southwest Ohio.
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And it's going to be amazing.
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We have had folks come from
49 states, multiple countries,
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and they keep coming
back year after year
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because there are big things
happening at Base Camp,
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and we don't
want you to miss it.
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I was at Couples Camp
and I ran into this woman
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and we were talking
about solitude.
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And solitude is a
time where we kind of
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all break out individually
and sit quietly in the woods
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and just kind of
reflect and rest
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and listen for God's voice.
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And she actually
went to her tent
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and she was chilling out in
her tent, and she was like,
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"I'm not really
hearing anything."
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And she naturally, instinctively
reached for her cell phone.
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And when she did,
she realized she didn't have it
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because we don't bring
our phones into camp,
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we leave them in our cars.
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And so when she did that,
she was like,
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"Oh, I don't have my phone."
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And as she was sitting there,
she heard from God
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in a really big way,
in a really profound way.
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And it just, I mean,
made a huge difference.
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- No matter who you are,
no matter where you are,
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we've got a camp for you.
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- Yeah, just go to camps.us.
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You can check out all
of our different camps
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and we're running a
special right now, a promo.
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You get 15% off when
you're checking out
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for your camp until March 3rd.
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- Yeah.
And all of our camps, really,
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everything that we do as a
church exists to help you grow,
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to help you connect with God
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and go to a new place
in your spiritual life.
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And this all happens,
all of it, because
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normal,
faithful people give generously
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to make this stuff happen.
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And if you're one of
those faithful givers,
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I just want to say
thank you so much.
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It matters.
It makes stories like ours
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and stories like that woman's
and thousands more possible.
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And if you have questions about
what we believe about money
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or want to join that
team of faithful givers,
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you can do so at
crossroads.net/give.
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- Yeah.
So thanks for joining us today.
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We're actually
going to kick it over
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to our Senior Pastor,
Brian Tome.
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And he's going to talk more
about what it means to unplug.
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- When despair for
the world grows in me
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and I wake in the
night at the least sound,
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I go and lie down where
the wood drake rests [cat]
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his beauty on the water and
the great heron feeds. [videos]
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Come to the peace of wild things
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who do not tax their --
[background sounds build]
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- Distracted yet?
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What would our lives look like
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if we took a
break from all this,
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the 24 hour news cycle
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00:22:23
and doomscrolling
ourselves to death?
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00:22:26
How would our lives be
better if we made space
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00:22:28
for talking and dancing
and laughing with each other
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00:22:31
until we pee our pants?
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00:22:32
God wants us to
experience a full life,
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but our distractions
are getting in the way.
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It's time to kill the noise
and listen for God's voice
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echo through the
pages of the Bible.
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Let's unplug.
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Unplug from digital distractions
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and plug into the real
life God has for us.
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- Man, I've been really
looking forward to this weekend.
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You ever, like,
go into something saying,
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"I've got something that
people are going to love?"
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You ever do that?
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Go into something going, "I
have something that people need.
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I have something that's
going to give hope."
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That's what we have
over the next few weeks.
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We're looking at technology
and the role in our life.
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And I'm going to talk about
things we probably all felt,
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we probably all believed,
we probably all known.
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But there's a thing
that maybe God wants
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to speak to you in
the midst of it that
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I'm pretty excited about today.
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So let's pray before
we go any further.
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God,
You're the God of all things,
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means all things are in the sky
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and all things in
our in our pocket,
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all wires, all Wi-Fi signals,
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everything that's been
created and will be created,
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You're the god
of all these things.
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And I am praying
that you would help us
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to see these things
the way they are,
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and to see You the way You
are and You would help me
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to be just very helpful,
hopeful and clear.
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And I pray these
things according to
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the character and
identity of Jesus. Amen.
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Well, I don't know how many of
us would call ourselves nerds,
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or how many of us would
just say, "I love technology,
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I like it, I like it a lot."
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I'm one of those people.
I'm one of those people.
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00:24:10
I've had a relationship with
tech for quite some time.
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When I was growing up
tech started to take off.
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You had the personal computer
that started to come out.
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You had Atari.
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You had the little
hand football games.
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They were called
Coleco way back when.
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And my friends would have them,
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my relatives that had them,
who I saw on Christmas break,
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and I didn't have them.
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And then when I did have them,
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I never had any games for them.
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My parents are very frugal.
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They manage their money really,
really well.
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But what this did for
me is it kind of fed into
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this sort of poverty orphan
mindset when I was a kid
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and technology was sort
of a way that I was behind.
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So when I could have technology,
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oh my gosh, I was all over it.
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It was like scratching
some itch inside of me.
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I was one of the first people
I know who got a cell phone,
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and I got a cell phone
because I could justify it
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00:25:04
as an expense here at Crossroads
when we started Crossroads.
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A big honking thing on
my side belt there, right?
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It was years before Lib
actually got a cell phone
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because they were expensive
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00:25:15
and it wasn't a
business expense for her.
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But I had one and I loved it.
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I remember being at a conference
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and the phone would
ring in the conference,
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and I'd be a douchebag
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and answer
it just because I was cool.
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I'd just be like, hello?
It was a sense of of power.
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While on summer break
a number of years ago,
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a number of years ago. Gosh,
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00:25:35
it must have been 15, 13
years ago, something like that.
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The iPhone 3 came out,
and I was one of the people
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who stood in line for
hours to get the iPhone 3.
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I thought it was just so cool.
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00:25:49
It's kind of not very
cool that iPhones
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really haven't
changed for years.
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That's kind of a bummer.
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I have one of the
later models right here.
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This is every single
model of iPhone
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that's come out from the
very beginning of time,
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or at least from
the year that it was.
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And I've been
enamored with them.
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These things, they make
you feel actually divine.
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They do.
They make you feel omnipresent.
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00:26:16
You can be
everywhere and find out
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what's going all over the place.
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They make you be
omniscient because
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you can find out anything
at a moment's notice.
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Do you know that today,
today you get more information
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in one day than people
in 1400 got their entire life.
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One day.
You can find out anything.
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How trustworthy it
is is another matter.
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You can find -- you
can be anywhere
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by streaming things or look,
these things make us feel
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like we're a divine entity
because we have powers,
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00:26:52
abilities, able to see things
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that nobody previously
in human history ever had.
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We unfortunately have a
car that had get replaced.
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00:27:02
It got totaled just in
the last week or so,
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00:27:04
so we're trying
to figure it out.
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00:27:06
And no one's hurt, by the way.
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00:27:07
All good, just stupid things
happen sometimes, you know?
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You know, my question is
because the last car we had
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didn't have CarPlay, I'm like,
"Does this have CarPlay?"
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00:27:18
Like, I'm more concerned
about CarPlay than gas mileage.
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00:27:20
More concerned about
CarPlay than four wheel drive.
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Does it have CarPlay
because I love tech.
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I love it, you know.
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And if you have the android,
if you know,
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one of two of you who have that,
hopefully you know
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00:27:35
that it's Valentine's
Day weekend.
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00:27:37
Hopefully you
can find each other
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and hopefully
you can stay out of
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the rest of our tech threads,
you know?
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And I actually find
that the Android people
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wear that with a
badge of courage.
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00:27:46
It's better technology,
but I know, I know,
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you still annoy us.
It's fun to have fun with you.
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00:27:50
It's funny, isn't it?
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00:27:52
We we can poke at each
other about our technology.
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00:27:55
We don't poke at each other
around the clothes we wear
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or even the cars we drive.
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But our technology is
because of the potency of it.
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In the midst of this potency,
I want to clarify things
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there's things you
probably all know,
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00:28:07
things you already heard of,
but maybe in this context
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00:28:10
it'll give you a different
path and it will give you hope.
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00:28:14
It will give you something
else to sink your teeth into.
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Ephesians 5:14 says this:
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We are about here at Crossroads,
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we're wanting to
see an awakening.
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00:28:29
We're wanting to
see the Spirit of God
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move across our region
and for people to see God,
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00:28:35
to actually come into
relationship with Him.
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00:28:37
For things like
miracles to take place,
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00:28:39
healings, refreshing of
our hearts and relationships,
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00:28:42
for the cultural
milieu to change.
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00:28:45
That's an awakening.
But you know what?
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00:28:47
That awakening doesn't happen
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unless we as
individuals wake up,
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that we wake up to the
delusional influences
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that are numbing us
out and putting us asleep.
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00:29:01
There is a digital world
that actually affects
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00:29:05
and infects the spiritual world,
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00:29:07
and void of you
being aware of this
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00:29:10
and being aware of the
schemes of an evil entity
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00:29:16
who wants to hurt us,
numb us, isolate us,
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00:29:21
divide us, depress us,
anxiety us,
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without knowing that
you can't go forward.
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00:29:28
There is a price
for your device.
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These things I'm
talking about today,
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and actually a series I
was inspired by because
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a friend of mine,
Darren Whitehead, pastor of
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00:29:37
a good church in Nashville
called Church of the City,
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00:29:40
did this and I heard about it.
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00:29:41
I thought, "Oh, dude,
we need to do it."
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00:29:43
In fact, there's churches
all over the country
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00:29:45
that are going to be
doing what we're doing
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00:29:48
leading up to a digital fast,
going for Lent
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00:29:52
for 40 days without our devices.
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00:29:56
Listen to that [mumbles] I know,
I know. Relax, relax.
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00:30:01
You don't have
to like that idea.
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00:30:02
You don't have to
agree to it right now.
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00:30:04
Just so you know,
that's where I'm going.
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00:30:06
And I'm borrowing heavily
from some of Darren's research.
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00:30:09
It's really, really solid.
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00:30:11
The book of John 10:10,
Jesus says this:
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You know there is a thief.
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00:30:24
The Bible refers to him
or you may know of him
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00:30:27
as the devil or Satan.
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00:30:30
This thief also
has names that are
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00:30:33
the adversary,
the liar, angel of light,
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00:30:38
meaning he looks like he's nice,
but he's really not,
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00:30:42
the deceiver.
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00:30:45
And he does a thing so
that we don't have life.
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00:30:47
Jesus says,
have life abundantly.
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00:30:50
Americans are not
having life abundantly.
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00:30:52
There isn't a social
indicator that's positive
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00:30:55
and up and to the right.
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00:30:56
Every single one that I've
ever seen is down going left.
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00:31:00
Anxiety. Depression.
Insomnia. Bitterness.
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00:31:05
All of it is in much higher
levels than it has ever been
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00:31:10
in measured history in
America and in the world.
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00:31:14
And it may just be that
it's the price of our device
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00:31:18
that's never existed any other
time over the last 15 years.
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00:31:22
Now again, we all know this.
We all know.
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00:31:25
I don't think anyone's going,
"You know what I need?
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00:31:27
I need a talk on
how I should look at
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00:31:29
a small screen more often
every day. That's what I need."
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00:31:32
No, no, no one said that.
We know that.
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00:31:33
We know this with
things we're talking about.
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00:31:35
But maybe we
haven't framed this up
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00:31:37
with the spiritual realm
in which it's operating.
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00:31:39
We need a digital reset.
-
00:31:42
We need to unplug and
reset ourselves digitally
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00:31:46
to use these things as a tool
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00:31:48
instead of being
these thing's tool.
-
00:31:54
We need to reset it.
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00:31:56
So let's talk about
these three things
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00:31:58
that Jesus says He wants to
give us life, life abundantly,
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00:32:00
but there's an entity that
doesn't want us to have life.
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00:32:03
Three things. Number one,
it steals. It steals.
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00:32:06
The word steal here in the
Greek is the word klepto,
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00:32:10
where we get the
word kleptomaniac.
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00:32:14
This word isn't just
to steal something.
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00:32:18
This word means
to do it secretly
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00:32:21
so someone doesn't even notice.
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00:32:25
That's the best
kind of thievery.
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00:32:29
Oh, a number of years ago,
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00:32:31
I had a horrible
thievery experience.
-
00:32:33
Someone stole my wallet.
-
00:32:34
Actually,
they didn't steal my wallet.
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00:32:36
They were very smart and sneaky.
-
00:32:38
They stole the cash out
of the wallet and the cards
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00:32:41
and left the wallet intact.
-
00:32:43
So I went around for,
like, a day or so.
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00:32:45
Didn't even know. Had no idea.
-
00:32:48
While I didn't know,
they were out charging things up
-
00:32:50
and blowing that cash.
-
00:32:51
Because if I knew
they couldn't do that.
-
00:32:53
I didn't know until I
went to a gas pump.
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00:32:55
I was like, "Where's my cards?"
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00:32:58
Sneaky. Amazingly sneaky.
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00:33:00
This is what was taking place
in the Greco Roman world.
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00:33:03
It meant to steal in a
stunningly clever way.
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00:33:09
Genghis Khan and the Mongols,
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00:33:11
they wouldn't just overwhelm
the entire world by brute force.
-
00:33:14
What they really enjoyed
was tricking people.
-
00:33:18
They would rather win
something through guile
-
00:33:21
and cunning and
surprising people,
-
00:33:23
even through lying or
whatever it would be,
-
00:33:26
than overpower them.
-
00:33:27
They got these really
sick joy out of this.
-
00:33:31
This is what the evil ones like.
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00:33:33
He doesn't want
to just trounce you.
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00:33:35
He wants to steal from you in
ways that you don't even know
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00:33:39
and you don't
even see it coming.
-
00:33:41
I believe that that's
what he's done with this.
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00:33:45
He's stolen from this.
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00:33:47
Let's just talk about
things that are different
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00:33:50
over the last 10 to 15 years.
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00:33:52
What do people do
when they're in a group of,
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00:33:54
say, six people and two people
in that group of six people
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00:33:59
seem to be talking
for like about 30s.
-
00:34:02
It's just them and them,
-
00:34:03
and the other four
people aren't involved.
-
00:34:05
What are the other
four people do,
-
00:34:07
or at least half of
the other four people?
-
00:34:09
"I'm not involved
for 30 second,"
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00:34:13
like right, like right,
right in front of them.
-
00:34:15
Like, that's really weird.
-
00:34:16
We understand in all of all
of anthropological history,
-
00:34:18
no one would
have ever done that.
-
00:34:20
"I'm here with real
people who are talking.
-
00:34:23
The limelight isn't on me for
30 seconds, but I'm bored."
-
00:34:27
Boom. I come up and do my phone.
-
00:34:29
Friends, that is weird.
-
00:34:31
More than I want to admit it,
the price of my device
-
00:34:35
is that I text while I'm
in the car, and I don't --
-
00:34:38
I don't only do it when
I'm sitting at a red light,
-
00:34:42
and it's horrible. It's awful.
-
00:34:45
I'm an awful person
when I do that,
-
00:34:47
and yet I have still done it.
-
00:34:49
There is a lure to this.
There's a power to this device.
-
00:34:54
I used to be able to
drive someplace one time,
-
00:34:58
and I could always get there,
no matter where I was from.
-
00:35:01
I would tell somebody,
"How do I get there?"
-
00:35:03
And they say, "Well,
here's how you do it."
-
00:35:04
They tell me I'd write, write,
-
00:35:06
write it down on
pencil and paper.
-
00:35:08
I'd write it down.
-
00:35:10
Then later I got a,
later I got a Palm Pilot.
-
00:35:13
I was a techie guy.
-
00:35:14
And remember Palm Pilots, it
was basically pencil and paper
-
00:35:18
where you would have a to
do list, and you'd have notes
-
00:35:21
and you'd have your calendar,
you know.
-
00:35:22
So I'd write it down in
my Palm Pilot or on paper.
-
00:35:25
Or then when it got really cool,
-
00:35:27
you'd go to this thing
called the World Wide Web,
-
00:35:30
and you go to MapQuest
and you type it in
-
00:35:32
and you print it out and
you take it with you. Right?
-
00:35:34
I would do that once.
I would know how to get there.
-
00:35:37
Now, I have no idea how to
get places without my phone.
-
00:35:42
Last week I went over to my
daughter and son in law's house.
-
00:35:46
They've lived in this house for,
I don't know, two years.
-
00:35:48
So I've been over
there dozens of times
-
00:35:50
and I was going over and
it's really embarrassing,
-
00:35:53
but you try this stuff sometime.
-
00:35:55
And they live 12
minutes away from me
-
00:35:57
and I'm just going
to drive over.
-
00:35:58
I don't need to put
it in my address.
-
00:36:00
Would you believe
-- would you believe
-
00:36:04
I got there straight no problem,
-
00:36:05
but I couldn't find their
house on the street.
-
00:36:10
I'm not going to far enough.
Did I go past it?
-
00:36:12
Circled, went back and
forth in the same street,
-
00:36:14
and finally I text her and say,
"Hey, sweetie,
-
00:36:16
would you please
send me your address?"
-
00:36:20
Neurologists, neuroscientists
tell us it's because
-
00:36:24
we're so -- we've become
so needing these things
-
00:36:29
for directions, there's parts of
our brain that have gone dead
-
00:36:34
and they just don't work the
way they used to work anymore.
-
00:36:37
We're being stolen from.
-
00:36:40
Is this really by accident?
-
00:36:42
I don't think it's by accident.
-
00:36:43
I think there's actually a
sinister force behind this.
-
00:36:49
The attention span that
we have is eight seconds.
-
00:36:55
A goldfish is nine seconds.
-
00:36:58
My family calls me the goldfish
-
00:37:00
because I have a
really bad memory.
-
00:37:02
We'll get into that
in just a moment.
-
00:37:05
Actually, the human
attention span has dropped
-
00:37:07
from 12 seconds in 2000
to 8.25 seconds in 2015.
-
00:37:12
Shorter than a goldfish.
-
00:37:14
Katherine Price wrote this about
-
00:37:17
the formation power
of the cell phone
-
00:37:20
and how to break up with
your cell phone. She says this:
-
00:37:51
That's what's happened.
We've been stolen from.
-
00:37:54
It's been a sinister plan
that an evil entity enacted,
-
00:38:00
and we don't even
know it's happening.
-
00:38:02
We're surprised by it.
-
00:38:04
We wake up and
our culture is different.
-
00:38:09
The enemy wants to distract.
-
00:38:11
He wants to steal from us.
-
00:38:13
And it happens all the time.
-
00:38:14
The way he does it
is he wants to take
-
00:38:15
our time and our attention.
-
00:38:16
Some of us are so focused
on not losing our money
-
00:38:19
in any way, shape or form.
-
00:38:20
But really,
your time and your attention
-
00:38:21
is way more valuable than
your money. It's your soul.
-
00:38:24
Your money isn't your soul,
your time and attention,
-
00:38:26
where you put your mind,
that's your soul.
-
00:38:28
And so it happens
regularly and consistently
-
00:38:30
for most of us every day.
-
00:38:33
Wake up and wake up.
And my -- my.
-
00:38:36
I used to have this old,
old school alarm
-
00:38:38
that some of you
for the digital reset
-
00:38:40
you want to might
want to bring out
-
00:38:41
that old digital
old school alarm
-
00:38:45
that would go something
like [buzzer sound].
-
00:38:48
You know, it's really awesome
to wake up to that sound.
-
00:38:54
But it's also awesome that
when you turn it off, it's off.
-
00:38:58
I use this phone for my alarm.
It's awesome.
-
00:39:01
My wife hates this,
but I made this ring --
-
00:39:04
My ringtone for my alarm,
a John Legend song.
-
00:39:07
[music: Good Morning,
John Legend] Good morning.
-
00:39:11
Good morning, love.
-
00:39:15
It's my favorite love song.
I waited all night long.
-
00:39:22
- Good morning.
That's awesome, I love it.
-
00:39:25
I reach over and squeeze her.
-
00:39:27
She hates it. Makes me
like it even that much more.
-
00:39:33
That's great. No problem
that John Legend has --
-
00:39:35
You can do that.
-
00:39:36
You can buy that John
Legend song for your thing.
-
00:39:38
It's pretty cool.
But here's the problem.
-
00:39:40
That thing rings and
I get up and it's like,
-
00:39:42
"Oh, did I get any text?
What's the weather?"
-
00:39:47
I mean, I look at the weather
and it quickly devolves into,
-
00:39:50
"Oh, let's check --
Let's check Insta."
-
00:39:52
I go in Insta, I go, "Oh man,
cool four wheel driving,
-
00:39:56
four wheeling things there."
-
00:39:57
Oh, which leads me right
into into hunting videos.
-
00:40:00
Oh it's awesome 200 point buck.
It's awesome. That's great.
-
00:40:02
Which leads me into
perfectly placed ad
-
00:40:06
for a manly shirt
that fits my brand.
-
00:40:08
Oh, I should buy that,
I need that.
-
00:40:10
Which leads me right,
right into, into a video
-
00:40:15
of somebody saying
something real aggressively
-
00:40:17
about how somebody who has
different thoughts than I do,
-
00:40:20
how they're stupid
and they get slammed.
-
00:40:22
Which leads me right into
another humorous thing
-
00:40:25
where a mom takes an
egg and slams it on her,
-
00:40:28
on her kid's forehead
and they freak out.
-
00:40:30
Which leads me right into a
Rock and Roll Hall of Fame
-
00:40:35
where, oh, what was it,
Tom Petty did we, uh --
-
00:40:39
Play my guitar, gently weeping,
steal my guitar gently --
-
00:40:43
With Prince, who comes
in and does a guitar solo.
-
00:40:47
And it's so good I have
to watch it three times.
-
00:40:50
By the way, just check that out.
-
00:40:52
Rock and Roll Hall of Fame,
Tom Petty and Prince.
-
00:40:56
You're welcome. It's unfreaking
believable. It's amazing.
-
00:40:59
Anyway,
I go down this rabbit hole.
-
00:41:01
That's my rabbit hole that's
specially queued up for me.
-
00:41:04
And the world has
given you a cue
-
00:41:07
that's going to take
you down the rabbit hole
-
00:41:09
before you know
it now and go like,
-
00:41:10
"Okay, now I'm going to
have my time in prayer.
-
00:41:12
I'm going to interact with God.
-
00:41:13
But I'm already
-- I've already had
-
00:41:15
so many stupid
things filling my mind,
-
00:41:18
but now I gotta, I gotta
detox from all that stuff
-
00:41:22
before I can actually,
actually hear from God.
-
00:41:25
We are what economists would say
-
00:41:27
we are in an attention economy.
-
00:41:31
Bitcoin isn't strange.
-
00:41:34
What's strange is we're the
coin in the attention economy.
-
00:41:38
Tristan Harris, who was a
product philosopher at Google,
-
00:41:42
he says this:
-
00:42:00
Jesus says, you can serve
Me or you can serve mammon,
-
00:42:02
which is a personal
term for money.
-
00:42:05
These devices don't
exist to serve us.
-
00:42:09
They exist to serve
the profit of companies.
-
00:42:13
That's what they exist for.
Period.
-
00:42:15
That's what they're wired for.
-
00:42:16
Which is why in Silicon Valley,
it's very well known.
-
00:42:19
Again all these things
you probably know
-
00:42:21
and I'm reminding
of these things.
-
00:42:22
I'm putting them in a
spiritual categorization,
-
00:42:26
which is why all the
people in the C-suite,
-
00:42:32
in Silicon Valley,
in the tech world,
-
00:42:34
they don't let their kids
use iPhones and iPads.
-
00:42:38
They stick them in schools
-
00:42:40
where it's not part
of their learning
-
00:42:41
because they know
it rots the brain.
-
00:42:43
They don't want that
happening to their kids,
-
00:42:45
but us, just keep swallowing it.
-
00:42:49
You want to be
one of the cool kids.
-
00:42:51
We've seen the latest
thing and it's hurting us.
-
00:42:54
Seth Godin says that our
phone doesn't work for us,
-
00:42:59
we work for our phone.
-
00:43:01
That's all the products
and algorithms
-
00:43:04
that we get stolen from,
we get sucked into.
-
00:43:07
The thief comes to steal,
to kill, to kill, to kill.
-
00:43:13
This means to slaughter.
-
00:43:16
Jesus says there is an entity
that wants to slaughter you.
-
00:43:18
He doesn't just want to cause
your heart to stop beating.
-
00:43:22
He wants to slaughter you.
He wants to pulverize you.
-
00:43:25
He wants to ground you
down into applesauce.
-
00:43:28
He wants your mind
to not work right.
-
00:43:29
He wants your emotions
not to work right.
-
00:43:31
He wants you to be
isolated and lonely because
-
00:43:34
that's really worse than
your heart stop beating.
-
00:43:36
He wants to decimate who
you and I are as human beings.
-
00:43:41
He wants to decimate our life.
-
00:43:43
He wants us to not
smile very much.
-
00:43:45
He wants us to not laugh.
-
00:43:46
He wants us to not have a hope,
or as Jesus would say,
-
00:43:49
the Bible says, a peace
that passes all understanding.
-
00:43:52
He wants to slaughter,
an utter bloodbath
-
00:43:54
of our emotions
and spiritual sanity.
-
00:43:58
This word here is the same
word that's used in Luke 15,
-
00:44:01
where the prodigal son,
the wayward son, he goes away,
-
00:44:04
and when he comes back
in a very repentant way.
-
00:44:07
The father, representing God,
runs out to meet him.
-
00:44:09
And what does he do?
-
00:44:10
He takes the fattened calf
-
00:44:11
that's meant for special
occasion and it says,
-
00:44:14
"Kill,
slaughter the fattened calf."
-
00:44:16
It's the exact same
word for slaughtering.
-
00:44:19
And that's what we're
getting slaughtered,
-
00:44:21
we're getting cut open,
we're getting trampled on.
-
00:44:25
And we seem to not
care or we even know.
-
00:44:29
And if you hear all
this today and you say,
-
00:44:31
"I know all this,"
and you can't change anything
-
00:44:35
about your device,
it says something about
-
00:44:38
how sinister we're
being stolen from
-
00:44:40
and how how things
have been crushed with us.
-
00:44:45
Just some stats.
-
00:44:46
Again, you've probably --
We've all probably heard this,
-
00:44:49
but let's go over again.
-
00:44:52
So many of these
things to research
-
00:44:54
and I just had to start chopping
them down, but here's some.
-
00:44:57
Adolescents who spend three
hours a day on social media
-
00:45:00
had a 60% increased
risk of mental health.
-
00:45:06
So says the Journal of American
Medical Association, 2019.
-
00:45:08
Some of these statistics
are like a few years old.
-
00:45:11
It's even worse now.
-
00:45:12
Over the last few years,
-
00:45:14
it's gotten worse
and worse and worse.
-
00:45:15
Teen suicide rates increased
by 56% between 2007 and 2015.
-
00:45:22
Teens who spend
five plus hours a day
-
00:45:25
on electronic devices
were 71% more likely
-
00:45:29
to have at least one
suicide risk factor.
-
00:45:33
Enough about teens. Okay?
-
00:45:35
They're just the most
vulnerable because
-
00:45:38
when you're a teenager,
you're more prone
-
00:45:40
to peer pressure
than than adults are.
-
00:45:44
Your brain is less formed.
-
00:45:45
I don't mean you're stupid.
I just mean it --
-
00:45:48
It's a bit harder, which is
why there's a lot of effort
-
00:45:52
to come against
this and protect teens
-
00:45:55
from what these
devices are doing.
-
00:45:57
One of the fascinating
studies I saw was that
-
00:46:00
when teens are polled and said,
-
00:46:05
"Would you like your parents
to take away your device?"
-
00:46:08
They almost all say, "No,
I wouldn't want that at all."
-
00:46:11
When they're asked,
"Would you like all parents
-
00:46:14
to take all teens devices?" They
go, "Yes, I would like that."
-
00:46:19
Because then they know they're
not cut out of the social loop,
-
00:46:22
they're not banned
from their social circles.
-
00:46:24
They're on even footing.
-
00:46:26
These things are
exasperated with teenagers,
-
00:46:28
but us as adults,
or me as a 59 year old,
-
00:46:30
whatever age you are,
-
00:46:32
younger than a teen
or older than a teen,
-
00:46:33
these are affecting all of us.
-
00:46:35
Let me keep going here.
-
00:46:36
Excessive screen
time is linked to
-
00:46:39
a 30% increase in
obesity risk because
-
00:46:43
it's sedentary lifestyle,
-
00:46:44
from the
Harvard School of Public Health.
-
00:46:46
61% of young adults,
that's 18 to 25,
-
00:46:50
report feeling lonely
-
00:46:51
due to decreased face
to face interactions.
-
00:46:55
70% of couples
report that people's --
-
00:46:59
The phones interfere
with their relationships,
-
00:47:02
leading to lower satisfaction.
-
00:47:05
90% of Americans
use screens before bed,
-
00:47:08
reducing melatonin
production by up to 50%,
-
00:47:12
leading to increased
insomnia and fatigue.
-
00:47:15
Yes, there's more bags
under the eyes of Americans
-
00:47:18
now than ever before in history
-
00:47:20
because of this device
that's stealing from us
-
00:47:24
and it's slaughtering us.
-
00:47:27
When you can't get
a good eight hours
-
00:47:29
or whatever you get a night,
when you can't get it
-
00:47:32
and this is effective.
-
00:47:33
It's precious. It's everything.
It's your health.
-
00:47:35
It's a it's a way to combat
depression and anxiety.
-
00:47:38
It's all those things.
-
00:47:39
You've got problems
with depression, anxiety,
-
00:47:41
job number one is to sleep well.
Job number one.
-
00:47:46
And this thing keeps
us from sleeping well.
-
00:47:48
Multiple studies in
the United States,
-
00:47:50
Turkey and the United
Kingdom have found that
-
00:47:52
more exposure to these
things leads in negative effects
-
00:47:57
in anxiety, depression,
social anxiety, low self-esteem,
-
00:48:04
narcissism, insomnia,
discrete and decreased sleep.
-
00:48:09
1 Peter 5:8 says this:
-
00:48:27
All the things I'm
saying right now,
-
00:48:29
it's roaring at us.
-
00:48:32
These statistics aren't like
Christian pastor guy up here.
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00:48:35
They're atheists who
don't believe in this stuff.
-
00:48:37
This isn't like
Bible thumper stuff.
-
00:48:38
This is just very, very clear.
-
00:48:40
Like,
this is happening right now.
-
00:48:41
There is a roaring
lion called our devices
-
00:48:46
that is pulverizing us,
that's slaughtering us.
-
00:48:49
And most of us just don't care.
-
00:48:52
We would rather have instant
access to the being of deity.
-
00:48:56
And we recognize this
may not be serving me well,
-
00:48:59
let alone serving my
relationship with God well.
-
00:49:03
When the roaring lion
is trying to devour you,
-
00:49:08
a roaring lion looking
for someone to devour,
-
00:49:11
or maybe an entire
culture to devour,
-
00:49:13
as 1 Peter 5:8 says,
what do we do? We resist him.
-
00:49:17
And the idea of devour,
it's the idea of swallowing up.
-
00:49:21
These devices are
swallowing us up.
-
00:49:26
The thought of being
without our devices
-
00:49:27
and losing them is,
oh my goodness.
-
00:49:30
The thought of me taking
a dump without my phone,
-
00:49:33
horrible. Horrible.
-
00:49:34
Haven't taken a dump
without my phone
-
00:49:36
in I don't know how long.
-
00:49:37
I don't know,
how could I even do it anymore?
-
00:49:39
I don't know if I could
even do it anymore.
-
00:49:40
Not sure. Weird. Weird.
-
00:49:46
When we do this fast, it's
going to start in a few weeks.
-
00:49:50
It's going to start
in a few weeks.
-
00:49:52
So we're just spending
a couple of weeks
-
00:49:53
just like getting ready
to count the cost,
-
00:49:56
figuring out if I
want to do this.
-
00:49:57
And by the way, you will decide
what your reset looks like.
-
00:50:01
You'll decide what
you want to cut out.
-
00:50:03
You'll decide for you.
It's your decision.
-
00:50:07
But why are we going to do this?
-
00:50:08
We're going to do this
because here Crossroads,
-
00:50:10
we do hard things.
We do hard things.
-
00:50:14
We do hard things.
We do. We do hard things.
-
00:50:17
We do hard things like
give above and beyond
-
00:50:19
what we regularly
give for all the territory
-
00:50:22
that God has given us and
and changing our lifestyles.
-
00:50:25
Those of us who do hard things
-
00:50:27
actually make
commitments to the 10X Push
-
00:50:29
and are actually
fulfilling those things.
-
00:50:31
That's a hard thing.
-
00:50:32
That's why a lot of
people didn't do it.
-
00:50:34
With us, we do hard things
-
00:50:36
because Jesus tells
us to do hard things.
-
00:50:38
This will be unbelievably hard,
unbelievably.
-
00:50:41
And that's exactly
why we're going to do it.
-
00:50:43
And I don't want to do it,
but I'm reminded
-
00:50:47
that I'm going to do it
because I do hard things.
-
00:50:50
This will be harder than
any elk hunt I've ever done.
-
00:50:52
And this is one of those areas
-
00:50:54
where I'm going to
do it right with you.
-
00:50:55
I didn't do it before you.
-
00:50:57
I haven't tried it
and checked it out
-
00:50:58
and now I'm trying
to get you to do it.
-
00:51:00
No, we're going
to do it in real time
-
00:51:01
and it's going to be hard
and it's going to be beautiful.
-
00:51:06
It's going to be life changing,
-
00:51:07
if for no other reason
than sticking a finger
-
00:51:10
in this thing going,
you don't own me,
-
00:51:14
you will not steal from me.
-
00:51:17
You will not slaughter me.
-
00:51:26
Jesus says a thief
has come to steal,
-
00:51:29
secretly destroy or kill,
slaughter us or destroy us.
-
00:51:36
That is to perish.
That's to take away life.
-
00:51:42
So many things that
we hold dear as humans
-
00:51:44
are just taken away from us,
they don't exist anymore.
-
00:51:48
I've been noticing
the sinister nature
-
00:51:50
of my phone for quite some time,
and I decided
-
00:51:52
to do some things
about it in the last year.
-
00:51:55
Simple things, but just
things that I wasn't doing.
-
00:51:58
Like, you know how
you want to broadcast
-
00:52:00
to everybody that
you are a dork?
-
00:52:02
You know how you would do that?
-
00:52:14
And I can't believe I've
been a dork for years.
-
00:52:16
I've been a dork for years.
-
00:52:17
Like, I don't know what
-- I don't know what I'm --
-
00:52:20
Do I think that I have
to multitask by walking,
-
00:52:24
and I have that many
important things to do
-
00:52:25
I have to save that time?
-
00:52:27
Do I feel like I'm missing out?
-
00:52:29
Or here's what's
even more sinister,
-
00:52:31
am I becoming afraid
of looking at strangers
-
00:52:35
and smiling and saying hello?
-
00:52:38
Oh my gosh, it's horrible.
-
00:52:39
When this sunk in, I was like,
I'll walk and talk on the phone.
-
00:52:44
But like, it's been months now,
like, no, I'm not.
-
00:52:47
I'm not walking and texting.
-
00:52:48
I'm not walking and looking.
I'm not, no, I'm not.
-
00:52:50
No, no, no. I'm walking like,
"Hey, how are you doing?"
-
00:52:54
Of course I'm good. Good. Great.
-
00:52:57
It's good. It's beautiful.
Just walking.
-
00:52:59
Hey. Hey.
-
00:53:03
Mind blowing.
-
00:53:05
When's the last
time you said hello
-
00:53:08
to somebody you don't
know passing by in the street?
-
00:53:12
You'll see somebody
about to lose their mind
-
00:53:14
when it happens, and they'll
like it at the same time.
-
00:53:17
This just doesn't happen
for most of us anymore.
-
00:53:21
Seth Godin,
who was an early pioneer
-
00:53:25
in understanding how
technology is affecting us
-
00:53:28
as human beings, says:
-
00:54:17
How many of us get the phone,
the phantom buzz?
-
00:54:22
You know, you feel like our
muscles twitch. You know?
-
00:54:25
Like, oh, no, no, I don't know.
Like, right?
-
00:54:30
You guys get it.
It's like you feel the twitch
-
00:54:33
because you have it so often,
-
00:54:34
and you're just
paranoid of missing it.
-
00:54:36
And you find your phone.
-
00:54:38
Weird, really, really
weird and really unhealthy.
-
00:54:45
The thief comes to steal,
kill and destroy
-
00:54:50
a flourishing life.
-
00:54:52
I've come that
they might have life
-
00:54:55
and have it to the full.
-
00:54:56
That's another translation.
-
00:55:03
When I started doing
student ministry in the '80s,
-
00:55:09
I would interact with people
who were a bit older than me
-
00:55:12
and had ministries that
were more fully developed
-
00:55:16
and reached a lot,
a lot, a lot, a lot,
-
00:55:18
a lot more kids than I was
reaching for whatever reason.
-
00:55:21
And I talked to them about,
you know,
-
00:55:23
what was their secret?
What was I doing wrong?
-
00:55:25
What were they doing?
-
00:55:27
And and I heard regularly,
they said,
-
00:55:29
"Brian, you may not be
doing anything wrong,
-
00:55:31
but here's the thing."
-
00:55:32
Like when they said
in the '70s and the '60s,
-
00:55:36
the reason why our
student ministries could be
-
00:55:38
really,
really big is that there wasn't
-
00:55:40
anything else
going on in culture.
-
00:55:44
So you could play football,
you could be a cheerleader,
-
00:55:47
you could be in the band,
maybe chess club. That was it.
-
00:55:51
There wasn't extracurricular
stuff that was happening.
-
00:55:55
There wasn't stuff going
on on Sunday mornings.
-
00:55:57
Now, of course we have youth
leagues and all that stuff.
-
00:56:00
An atheist who was
a coach in the '80s
-
00:56:03
didn't want to work on
Sunday morning either.
-
00:56:06
But now we all do.
It's all it's just sad.
-
00:56:08
So the reason our
ministries were so big
-
00:56:10
was because kids didn't
have anything else to do.
-
00:56:12
There was nothing
competing for their attention.
-
00:56:14
They were like, "Oh,
something for me to go do?
-
00:56:17
Wow. Something I could
go hang out with people?
-
00:56:19
Got nothing better else,"
and would go.
-
00:56:21
That's what they tell me.
-
00:56:22
Well,
you think about that today.
-
00:56:24
If you want to see an awakening,
-
00:56:25
a sweep of God's
Spirit across the nation,
-
00:56:27
how might the adversary
stop that from happening,
-
00:56:32
from making us so
busy that we think
-
00:56:35
we don't have time to go
hear someone talk to me,
-
00:56:39
and to hear music that
might uplift my heart
-
00:56:42
because I don't have to
any longer go someplace
-
00:56:46
where someone's
planned something.
-
00:56:47
I just have to stare at
this for six hours straight
-
00:56:51
and think I'm getting
something done
-
00:56:52
and getting myself amused.
-
00:56:54
Can you see the
sinister nature of it?
-
00:56:56
It's dividing us.
It's separating us.
-
00:57:00
It's keeping us from God.
-
00:57:03
So here's what
we're going to do,
-
00:57:06
what I'm encouraging you to do.
-
00:57:07
Three things. Number one,
make your smartphone dumb.
-
00:57:12
Eliminate apps for 40 days
-
00:57:17
because it's going to be Lent.
-
00:57:19
Lent is a season that
Christians historically
-
00:57:21
from all over the globe
have said, "For 40 days,
-
00:57:26
I'm going to not
do with something.
-
00:57:28
I'm going to do
without something,
-
00:57:30
because I want to take
that time and energy
-
00:57:33
to think about God and
to sacrifice a little bit,
-
00:57:36
because Jesus's
sacrifice for me."
-
00:57:38
That's what lent is
supposed to be, not like,
-
00:57:40
"I'm just going to get rid of
chocolate because I like it
-
00:57:42
and I don't want
to have it anymore."
-
00:57:43
It's supposed to be I'm flushing
something from my system
-
00:57:48
that may be keeping me from God,
-
00:57:50
and I want to spend that
energy thinking about God,
-
00:57:53
talking about God.
-
00:57:54
So for Lent, 40 days,
we're going to flush our system,
-
00:57:58
detox our system of
certain digital things.
-
00:58:01
And so you decide
on your smartphone
-
00:58:04
what you want to delete
for 40 days to make it dumb.
-
00:58:08
You probably want to keep
your weather app on there.
-
00:58:10
You want to keep your
text message app on there.
-
00:58:13
A number of things on there,
but make it dumb.
-
00:58:14
Number two, eliminate other all
other screens for personal use.
-
00:58:19
Like, when's the
last time you just said
-
00:58:21
let's just try to get rid,
for personal use?
-
00:58:23
You can't do this for work.
-
00:58:25
You know, if you're a movie
critic, you got to watch movies.
-
00:58:30
If you got an email
account with work,
-
00:58:32
you've got to stare at a
screen to do your email at work.
-
00:58:34
But you don't have to be
checking in on our email
-
00:58:36
on our day off when
we're taking a dump.
-
00:58:39
You don't need to do that.
-
00:58:40
Number three, limit your digital
tools to apps during work hours.
-
00:58:48
Another way to
look at look at is this.
-
00:58:50
You can either be a tool.
-
00:58:55
You can be a tool
or use this as a tool.
-
00:59:00
And most of us, unless you're
doing something intentionally,
-
00:59:03
we are a tool right
now for big corporations
-
00:59:07
and big tech and advertising
execs who are owning us,
-
00:59:10
and they're rewiring
our brain and dividing us
-
00:59:13
and changing things
about everything.
-
00:59:15
It's deep, man. Really deep.
-
00:59:19
Like, even down to stuff,
like, back in the old days.
-
00:59:23
Back in the old days, I used
to give talks to young people
-
00:59:26
at Crossroads who
weren't married saying,
-
00:59:28
"Don't have sex
until you get married."
-
00:59:30
I don't have to give
those talks anymore
-
00:59:32
because the statistics
are pretty clear.
-
00:59:33
People aren't even
having sex anymore.
-
00:59:35
Sex therapists
would tell you that
-
00:59:37
their biggest clientele is
20 something men who,
-
00:59:40
when they get with
an actual real woman,
-
00:59:42
they can't get aroused because,
we can get aroused
-
00:59:46
and satisfy ourselves
in the middle of a field.
-
00:59:51
It's not,
it's not like go to 7-Eleven,
-
00:59:52
walk out with a brown
wrapper magazine.
-
00:59:55
It's not like my computer,
a desktop computer
-
00:59:58
I'm worried about being busted
and being fired from work.
-
01:00:00
No. I can go anywhere and
get aroused, male or female.
-
01:00:06
And you think that doesn't
affect our interaction
-
01:00:08
with the opposite
sex and our heart?
-
01:00:10
Oh, my goodness. We're a tool.
We're tool for this.
-
01:00:14
So what might you do?
-
01:00:16
If it's a tool, you'd say,
-
01:00:18
uh, non-work email outside of
working hours, I'm doing emails.
-
01:00:20
If it's a tool, you go, "Hey,
I'm going to use it as a phone."
-
01:00:23
If you are a tool, you're
going to be using social media,
-
01:00:27
which doesn't get you anything.
-
01:00:29
Nothing, except wasting of time.
-
01:00:32
If you want to use this tool,
text.
-
01:00:33
Texts keep you in touch,
quick and to the point.
-
01:00:36
That's fine. News apps.
-
01:00:39
I'm eliminating all
news apps for 40 days.
-
01:00:41
I'm going to go 40
days without any news.
-
01:00:43
And you know what?
-
01:00:44
I will be just fine
and so will the world.
-
01:00:46
[indiscernible]
-
01:00:48
If there's something important,
someone will tell me
-
01:00:50
and it'll probably
be more accurate.
-
01:00:51
Every morning I get up,
I have a couple news sources
-
01:00:54
I go and I devour and then
I check into during the day.
-
01:00:57
I'm not helping
the world or myself.
-
01:01:01
It's just my need to,
like, be in the know
-
01:01:03
and fill up two minutes of time
-
01:01:06
instead of maybe
praying for two minutes.
-
01:01:08
When I have to have
the news all the time.
-
01:01:10
No, I'm being a tool.
-
01:01:12
But the calendar, it's a tool.
-
01:01:13
I want my calendar right here.
-
01:01:15
Games. We're a tool.
-
01:01:19
Airline apps, it's a tool,
that's helpful.
-
01:01:22
Web browser can be we're a tool,
-
01:01:25
endlessly searching things.
-
01:01:26
Using the Crossroads
app is a tool.
-
01:01:28
We're going to have special
things in the Crossroads app,
-
01:01:31
devotionals over those 40 days.
-
01:01:33
Not only that,
I'm testing right now,
-
01:01:36
an app that Crossroads
is being gifted for free
-
01:01:38
for the 40 days.
It's called Aro. It is awesome.
-
01:01:43
It basically gamifies
putting down your phone.
-
01:01:46
Those of us who've been trying,
it's amazing.
-
01:01:48
And we'll talk about
that in weeks ahead.
-
01:01:50
YouTube video clips.
This one's going to hurt for me.
-
01:01:53
I've never seen a
YouTube clip I didn't like.
-
01:01:55
I don't know what
I'm going to do
-
01:01:57
not watching car
restoration videos
-
01:01:59
or people who
kill 200 point bucks
-
01:02:03
with a bow and
arrow up in a tree.
-
01:02:04
I don't know what I'm going
to do, but I'm going to do it.
-
01:02:06
Camera. No, no, I need a camera
to take pictures of stuff.
-
01:02:09
When I'm a tool, I'm endlessly
looking at Amazon shopping.
-
01:02:12
How much do -- how much more
do we spend because of this?
-
01:02:16
Weather? Good to know
what to do. It's a tool.
-
01:02:20
Ephesians 5:14.
I'll give this to us again.
-
01:02:31
Can we all just admit that
maybe we're just a little dead?
-
01:02:39
Can we just see that we're not
the person we could be, right?
-
01:02:46
Just forget about
culture out there.
-
01:02:49
Do we not see that we just
don't have the attention span,
-
01:02:52
the patience, the ability to
silent, the ability to be still?
-
01:03:01
Do you like that? I don't.
-
01:03:06
And I intend to do
something about it.
-
01:03:08
I intend to wake up.
-
01:03:10
And I want you to wake up, too.
-
01:03:12
And I know if you do, it'd be
really, really thankful you did.
-
01:03:17
So we got two weeks
we're going to talk about this,
-
01:03:19
and then we're going to start.
All right?
-
01:03:22
Let me pray. Lord,
You are so kind and patient.
-
01:03:30
Your children are distracted,
-
01:03:31
and yet You hang in there
with us, and You're patient.
-
01:03:37
Your children are antsy
and consumed with
-
01:03:42
all kinds of things that
You don't care at all about,
-
01:03:45
and yet You still are faithful.
-
01:03:49
God, help us to be
children who are full of life,
-
01:03:53
children who laugh,
children who run,
-
01:03:55
children who look
people in the face,
-
01:03:57
children who have
a sense of wonder.
-
01:04:00
We trust in You to do that.
-
01:04:03
We commit that that's
who we want to be. Amen.
-
01:06:21
- Jesus,
would You lead us back to You
-
01:06:25
because I know
You have more for us,
-
01:06:29
to lead us towards life.
-
01:06:34
Wake us up.
Refresh us again, God.
-
01:06:41
I pray this in You, Jesus. Amen.
-
01:06:48
- Man, that is so good
and honestly so hard.
-
01:06:51
Like, so good for me
and what I need to hear.
-
01:06:53
It reminds me, actually,
of a quote that I heard
-
01:06:55
that talks about how
we're distracting ourselves
-
01:06:58
into spiritual oblivion.
-
01:07:00
That's like way before
the internet, but that's true.
-
01:07:03
Like,
the distraction is robbing us
-
01:07:05
of something that we really,
really need.
-
01:07:07
- It's so true, man.
I tell you, one of the things
-
01:07:10
that we are super
passionate about around here
-
01:07:12
is getting you and me
to grow closer with God.
-
01:07:16
And you heard Brian talking
about the Crossroads app.
-
01:07:19
It is a tool and
we're using that tool
-
01:07:22
to go deeper spiritually.
-
01:07:23
There's scripture out there.
-
01:07:25
There's opportunity to
interact with our community.
-
01:07:27
We just heard it,
it was going to be --
-
01:07:28
There's going to be some
devotionals on it as well
-
01:07:30
that are going to get us
through the next few weeks,
-
01:07:33
which is pretty amazing.
- That's right.
-
01:07:34
So the message
of today isn't that
-
01:07:36
you have to throw your
phone down a well. No, no.
-
01:07:38
It's that it's a tool.
-
01:07:39
And make sure it's a
tool that's working for you
-
01:07:41
and helping you to grow
into the kind of the person,
-
01:07:43
into the kind of
person you want to be,
-
01:07:45
and thriving in the way that
God has intended you to thrive.
-
01:07:49
Now, I want to say, like,
-
01:07:50
our Crossroads
Anywhere community,
-
01:07:52
you guys meet right now.
-
01:07:53
You're gathering on a
screen using digital tools,
-
01:07:56
and that's perfect.
That's really, really great.
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01:07:58
That's what we want to do.
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And if you're like me realizing,
hey,
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I need to recalibrate how
I spend myself digitally,
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you can go to
Crossroads.net/unplug
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for more resources.
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01:08:09
And maybe you've got, like,
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you don't want to
wait for the digital fast.
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You want to jump in right now,
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maybe you have
questions about faith or God.
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Check that out,
our group called Alpha.
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It's perfect for you
at Crossroads.net.
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We're so grateful.
Thanks for joining us.
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- Yeah. See you next week.