Live a Greater Story

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- Well, hey, welcome to Crossroads.

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Whether you're watching us online

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or here in the room with us,

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it's so great to be with you.

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Hey, my name is Andy Reiter.

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I lead our Crossroads Anywhere community,

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which means if you're here in Oakley, man,

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I only get to see you guys when your kids are sick.

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So I'm glad everybody's doing well,

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I get to be with you in person.

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Now, I just want to say this.

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I think I can speak for all of us pretty safely

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when I say, like, 99.9% of us sort of have

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an unhealthy relationship with this thing right here.

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And throughout this whole series called Unplugged,

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we're just sort of saying, "God, do you have anything

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You want to say to us about it that might help us thrive,

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that might help us flourish?"

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And so to just start our time off, to reset

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and to focus our attention on God,

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we're going to start off by singing some songs.

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And these songs are a reminder of what God says

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is true about us and what we get to say is true about God.

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So we'd love it if you'd stand on up and sing with us.

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- All right, y'all ready to learn a new song together?

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Come on, I'm gonna need your help on this one.

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- Come on. If you know it, sing.

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- Come on, sing it again. Sit in it.

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- Come on, ask yourself.

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- Come on one more time. Maybe you need it.

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- Come on, receive His grace.

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- Thank you, Lord. [applause]

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- That song is super clear

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that God doesn't want us to stay stuck.

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Right? That's the Lord's goodness

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that He wants to bring us to a new place.

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Now, you might be wondering why I'm on

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a little tiny stage that's flowering like

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a little garden in the middle of an auditorium.

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And I just want to tell you,

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it's not just for the creative effect.

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It's a visual representation of what this whole series is about,

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that we want to go from a new place to someplace new,

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that we don't want to stay stuck,

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that we don't want to tend to a grave,

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that we want God to invite us to someplace new

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that's thriving and that's flourishing.

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And just as you sang those words, I want you to know

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that's what God wants for you, to invite you

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and call you to a new place.

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And if you're extra observant,

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you may have also wondered why

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whenever they've been doing this in service

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throughout this series, do they ask me to pull out my phone?

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Maybe the number one source of distraction in my life

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in a series about unplugging from digital distractions?

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Well, that's intentional too.

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So if you would, go ahead and pull out your phone for me.

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There's a quote that I heard recently

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by George M. Adams that said:

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encouragement is like oxygen to the soul.

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And isn't that true?

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Encouragement is like oxygen to the soul.

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And I think we can all think of a time where

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someone offered us just the right word

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at just the right moment. Right?

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And I bet we can all think of a moment

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where that word didn't come, and we just felt stuck

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and alone where we were.

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Well, when we worship, we're not just singing

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truths about God to Him.

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We're also empowered to live out the truths

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of who God says we are and to echo those to one another.

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So right now, I want you to think,

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"Who needs encouragement in my life?

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Who could I just reach out to and send a text

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right now, in this moment, to encourage them,

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to invite them to go to a new place?"

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Take a minute right now, in this moment,

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and send someone a text of encouragement, of hope.

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Let's do that together.

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- Come on, say it right to him.

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- That's who you are, Jesus, and we worship You.

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We worship You freely.

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We bring all of our stuff here in this room,

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and we say none of it is more important than You.

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None of it brings us more value or more purpose in this life.

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No, it's You. You're the giver of purpose.

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You're the giver of our identities.

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They're in you. They're not in our jobs.

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They're not in the way we choose to present ourselves

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and our fashion.

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And it's in following after You and being more like You,

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we are image bearers.

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God, you are the Creator and I just praise You.

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I just realized how grateful that

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my whole entire being is right now after singing to you.

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That being so focused and locked in on you,

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nothing else matters. There's a peace.

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There's a weight that feels like it's lifted off of my life.

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And no, that doesn't mean my problems

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aren't still waiting for me.

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But it means they don't control me, because You are good.

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You are faithful, and I choose to believe that.

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And I thank You for who You are

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and for being able to sing to You freely.

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It's a gift. And I praise You.

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In Jesus's name. Amen. Amen.

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Come on. Anybody else feel Him in the room?

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Come on. Whoo!

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He's right here with us.

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And it's true, every good thing comes from Him.

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And believe it or not, community comes from Him.

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He loves it when we're together.

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And he built us, created us that way.

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Why don't you turn to somebody next to you,

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give 'em a high five.

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Maybe you don't know 'em, tell 'em your name.

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Give 'em a fist bump.

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Give 'em a hug if they're cool with that,

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and then you can have a seat.

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- Imagine completely unplugging.

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Step away from the ordinary

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and into an extraordinary adventure.

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Take a break, recharge, and come home more alive.

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Unplug and connect with God.

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You need this.

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Camps.us.

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- Was that Wilford Brimley or Slingblade?

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- No, it was John Goodman. Definitely John Goodman.

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- Hey, agree to disagree.

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- I'll tell you who these guys are.

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These are two good friends of mine.

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This is Judd and Craig, who are a big part

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of making all of our camps what they are.

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And guys, where did actually the idea for camps come from?

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- We were on a bike trip in this muddy bog in Kentucky,

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and we said, "This is amazing,"

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in the middle of like a cold November morning

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saying like, "More people need this.

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They need the adventure, the challenge.

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They need the brotherhood

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and then the connection with God that comes on all this."

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And so we said, "Why don't we make one?"

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- Camps started with like a motorcycle trip and some tents

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and grew into something that there's

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all kinds of different camp, Man Camp, Woman Camp,

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Couples Camp, Student Camp, Veterans' Camp,

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Father Son Camp, Mother Daughter Camp.

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- Family Camp. - Family Camp.

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- Which is kind of both of those crammed together.

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- That's right. That's right.

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Why should somebody come to camp?

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- Because they're awesome.

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- Yeah, they're great, it's super fun.

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- Do you like fun and God?

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- It's like a festival in the woods.

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- I mean, if you like fun and God, I think that's --

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You're halfway there, might be two thirds of the way there.

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- It's maybe the best thing you can do

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if you're sick of your phone and you're distracted

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and you need to get away from it and get a --

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It's like sensory deprivation,

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like get out in the actual nature that God made.

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- So no matter where you live, no matter where you are,

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whether you're near one of our physical sites

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or you're part of our Anywhere community,

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hey, I just want to tell you this is worth it.

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I don't care if you live in Denver

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in like prime camping zone,

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you should in fact come to Ohio to come to one of our camps.

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I know it sounds insane, but it's worth it.

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Like we were just talking before this,

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you both had stories of people

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whose lives are different because they came to camp.

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- Yeah, absolutely. - Yeah, yeah.

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I mean, so speaking of the Anywhere community,

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we had 2 or 3 camps ago.

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I was watching baptisms in the camp and this shadow,

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like, falls over me from behind.

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I turn around and there's this monstrous guy in overalls.

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And I was like, and you know what?

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"Hey, man, how are you doing?"

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He said, "Hey, you got to realize how important this is."

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And I was like, "Oh, thanks."

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He goes, "No, you see these scars on my arm, scabs?"

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And I was like, "Yeah, yeah."

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He goes, so this was Sunday, the prior Monday, he said,

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"The prior Monday I came home,

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caught my old lady in bed with my best friend,

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went out to the garage, threw a rope

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over the rafter in my shed and hung myself."

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He said, "The rope snapped." This guy was a monstrous person.

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Rope snapped, landed on all of his yard implements,

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his mower and all this stuff and cut himself up.

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He was kind of banged up.

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He said, "The only reason I didn't get back up there

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is because I remembered I was coming here this weekend,

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and I remember what it meant to me last time I was here."

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Because he came and, like, won arm wrestling.

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I mean, this guy was as serious as anybody I've ever talked to.

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So that was, that was a big deal.

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- Gosh.

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- Yeah, I mean, camps is great for me personally.

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Like, my three kids have all been baptized

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at different family camps because they wanted it,

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they asked for it, you know?

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And they made the decision to follow Jesus.

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And that was an environment that made it safe and fun

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for them to make that choice. So it's been good.

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- You guys were telling me a story

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about guys that were coming from new Jersey,

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didn't know anybody. - Right.

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- Found out that there was somebody else

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that was on his route,

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like his 12 hour route to Base Camp where the camps are held.

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Picked another guy up, they became friends.

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And then literally for the last three years

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have been bringing more and more people on their route down.

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So whether you know people or whether you don't, man,

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this is the perfect place to make some new connections,

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make some new friends, or to bring your crew

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and go experience camp together.

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Now, all this stuff, you were saying,

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like, the price of your ticket for camp cover what?

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- It covers the basics, the basic experience.

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It doesn't cover the land.

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It doesn't cover any of the staff that's out there.

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- It barely covers whatever camp you're going to ish.

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So yeah, and there's a million moving parts and pieces

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that support camp, that allow us to have camp,

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that allow camps to exist that none of that touches.

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- Yeah. How many acres?

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- We're over 800 now. - Over 800. Yeah.

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- So over 800 acres, lots of infrastructure,

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lots of staff, lots of stuff that happens

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because of the faithfulness and the generosity

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of this community that isn't included in that,

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whatever the price for the ticket is.

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So I just want to say, if you're part of

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the faithful team that makes all this stuff happen

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around Crossroads, thank you, thank you, thank you.

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Stories like these and countless more

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than we have time to tell you happen

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because of your faithfulness.

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And specifically, if you are a part of

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our community who tithes,

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that gives 10% of your income to your local church,

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and you're on what's called the Blue Team.

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You can check that out at crossroads. ne/BlueTeam

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for more information there, or to join the team

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of faithful givers who make all this possible.

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Head to Crossroads.net/give.

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- It's awesome. - Do it!

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- Thanks, guys. - Thanks.

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- When despair for the world grows in me

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and I wake in the night at the least sound,

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I go and lie down where the wood drake rests [cat]

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his beauty on the water and the great heron feeds. [videos]

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Come to the peace of wild things

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who do not tax their -- [background sounds build]

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- Distracted yet?

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What would our lives look like

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if we took a break from all this,

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the 24 hour news cycle

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and doomscrolling ourselves to death?

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How would our lives be better if we made space

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for talking and dancing and laughing with each other

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until we pee our pants?

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God wants us to experience a full life,

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but our distractions are getting in the way.

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It's time to kill the noise and listen for God's voice

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echo through the pages of the Bible.

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Let's unplug.

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Unplug from digital distractions

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and plug into the real life God has for us.

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- All right, who's ready to lean in?

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Yes, yes, yes, yes.

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I've got a specific goal in mind for you today,

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and that is for you to commit, for you to commit

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to the 40 Day Digital Reset,

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because it will transform your life.

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So you heard the details.

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We're going to be doing this together as a church.

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It's an opportunity for us to reevaluate

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our relationship with our technology.

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It's an opportunity for us to fast, right,

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to give up something physically,

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but to gain something spiritually.

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You know, I try before I speak on a weekend

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to just ask God, "God, what do you think?

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What's on your mind about the people that I get to speak to?"

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And oftentimes God will give me pictures

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or He'll give me words.

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And I feel like the thing that God gave me

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coming into today is this:

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there are world changing callings

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on the lives of people here right now.

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I don't know if you believe that about yourself,

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but I believe that about you.

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I believe that there are people in here

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who are called to set a new trajectory

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by building a healthy family,

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even though you've never experienced one.

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I believe there are people in here who have

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creative, entrepreneurial ideas, and God is going

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to give you not just world changing ideas,

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but industry shifting ideas for a business.

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I believe there are people in here right now

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that God is going to use in incredible ways

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through your artistic gifts, to create lasting art

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that helps people not just in this generation,

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but in future generations, connect to the living God.

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I believe there are world changing callings

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on your lives in here.

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And God just was giving me that as a picture and an image.

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Because here's the deal.

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If we're going to experience that,

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we've got to find a way to shift our lives

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from distraction into destiny.

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And that's what I believe is an opportunity

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that this digital fast offers for us.

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So let's pray that that would happen for all of us.

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God, I ask that You would speak, that You would move,

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that You would motivate, that You would encourage,

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that You would guide, that You would comfort,

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that You would challenge, that You would do

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whatever is needed for us to say yes

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to what it is you're calling us to.

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God, I believe there is something in this for me,

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and I'm eager to receive it.

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And I believe that is true

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for every person who is listening,

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whether they're in their house right now,

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whether they're in a building right now.

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There is something for all of us in this.

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Help us to see it. Help us to receive it, God.

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Help us to step into it.

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In Jesus's name. Amen. Amen.

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Romans 12:1-2 says this:

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I don't know everybody in here personally,

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but I'm going to take a wild guess that

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no one listening right now wants to be a conformer.

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Anybody want to be a conformer in here? Right?

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I mean, we're just, like,

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naturally don't want to be a conformer.

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But here's the challenge or the problem we face.

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We are. We are conformers.

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And the question that we have to ask ourselves is,

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right now in your life, are you conforming

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or are you transforming?

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Because you're doing one or the other?

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We have more and more of our brothers and sisters

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that come to Crossroads who speak Espanol.

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And so in Espanol the question would be this:

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estas confirmando o transformando de,

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because we're doing one or the other. Uno or el otro.

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Paul writes these words in Romans and he says,

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I appeal to you. I am putting on my encourager hat today.

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I want to encourage you.

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I want to make an appeal to you.

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I want to make an appeal to you based on the mercies of God.

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God is for you.

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We talked about that last week,

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and I want to make an appeal to you

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that requires you not just to think differently,

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but to act differently.

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Paul says we're to offer our bodies as a living sacrifice.

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That means this is a full contact appeal.

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Are you conforming or are you transforming?

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The invitation is to transform.

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So in the first two weeks, if you weren't here,

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I think we did a really good job making a case that

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we need to reevaluate our relationship with our devices.

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There's data behind it, there's science behind it,

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there's stories behind that.

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If you missed the first two weeks,

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I encourage you to go and listen to that.

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But I think we made that case pretty clearly.

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I do want to say one thing, technology is neutral.

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Technology is neither bad nor good,

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and there's a lot of good that's come from technology.

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But how we use technology is either conforming us,

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or it can be a part of how we are transformed.

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And what I want to do today is not make a case

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that you should spend less time on your phone.

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Instead, I want to make a case for being transformed.

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I want to invite you in to transformation.

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Romans 12 is Paul's appeal to followers of Jesus

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in first century Rome.

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And let me give you some context for first century Rome,

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so you can understand how countercultural

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and how high challenge these words actually were.

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Rome ruled the world in the first century.

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The Roman Empire was the most dominant force

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on the planet in that time, and they worshiped many gods.

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Like, part of their culture was they worshiped trees.

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They worshiped buildings. They worshiped different gods.

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They worshiped rivers.

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They worshiped even their emperor.

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So in that time, everybody in Rome

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who was loyal to the empire would say, "Caesar is Lord."

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And what they meant when they said that was that

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the man who sat on the throne, Caesar, was divine.

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They didn't think he was just a man.

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They would say he was a god, and they worshiped him like a god.

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And so Roman culture was unique in a lot of ways.

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Roman culture was a mix of sophistication

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and at the same time, brutality.

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I mean, there are things like the Roman aqueducts

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and the Roman road system and all kinds of things

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that they made kind of artistic and architectural things

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that were just innovative for the time.

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There's a lot of sophistication in the Roman Empire.

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And yet this is the same empire that had

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in the arena gladiators

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and people who they were feeding to lions,

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while other people cheered on and were entertained by that.

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So it was this crazy mix of vulgarity.

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It was also very a sexually explicit culture,

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and the people were addicted to entertainment.

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In fact, Caesar said the reason that they did

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the gladiatorial games was because they wanted

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to give the people bread and circus.

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Because if we can get them so distracted

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by these entertaining things, they won't be concerned

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about the ways that we're dominating them

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in every other area of their life.

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So in Rome,

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it was countercultural to be a Christian.

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Check this out.

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In Rome, Christians were called atheists

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because Christians didn't worship all of the other gods

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and the rivers and the buildings and Caesar as Lord.

00:37:18

They had the courage to say that Jesus is Lord,

00:37:21

and they were seen as atheists because of that.

00:37:25

To be a Christian in Rome was at best

00:37:29

to be a social outcast, and at worst,

00:37:32

and this was true for thousands of Christians

00:37:34

in the Roman Empire, it was to be seen as an enemy

00:37:37

of the state and killed for your faith.

00:37:40

So suffice to say, in that environment,

00:37:44

there's a lot of pressure to conform.

00:37:47

Like knife to your throat pressure to conform.

00:37:51

Like, do I want to be fed to lions tomorrow

00:37:54

pressure to conform.

00:37:55

Let alone all the social challenges of being

00:37:58

an outcast to conform, high pressure to conform.

00:38:02

And here's what I would say.

00:38:03

I think it's similar for us today

00:38:06

as people who want to go the way of Jesus.

00:38:09

Now you might be like, "Wait a second,

00:38:11

I'm not going to leave here hopefully

00:38:13

and be violently assaulted because of my faith."

00:38:16

Thank God that's likely not to happen.

00:38:18

That's likely not going to happen in our lifetime.

00:38:20

And yet, to be clear, the way of Jesus,

00:38:23

the way that Jesus calls us to His followers of His,

00:38:26

is completely countercultural to

00:38:29

the typical American culture.

00:38:30

It is not the culture of America to go the way of Jesus.

00:38:34

It isn't. It isn't.

00:38:35

And here's the thing. Here's the thing.

00:38:38

We can say we are Christians with our words,

00:38:43

but our choices and our actions tell the truth.

00:38:47

And the question is, are you conforming

00:38:50

or are you transforming?

00:38:52

Paul's appeal is very clear.

00:38:54

Do not be conformed to this world.

00:38:56

What does it mean to be conformed?

00:38:58

It means to be squeezed into the mold of the culture,

00:39:02

to be squeezed into the mold of the culture.

00:39:04

And what is the pattern of this world?

00:39:06

It's any value set, any system that is

00:39:08

inconsistent with the way of Jesus.

00:39:10

And it is true for us in our culture.

00:39:12

Let me give you a couple patterns of the world

00:39:14

that are easy to be conformed to.

00:39:16

One of them is materialism.

00:39:18

Materialism is a pattern of the world

00:39:20

because Jesus says in Matthew 6:25,

00:39:23

"I tell you, do not be anxious about your life,

00:39:25

what you will eat, or what you will drink,

00:39:27

or about your body or what you will put on.

00:39:29

Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing?"

00:39:32

And yet, it's very easy to be so materialistic in our culture.

00:39:36

Here's another one.

00:39:37

Hyper individualism is a pattern of this world.

00:39:40

It is not the culture of the Kingdom

00:39:42

to have this hyper individualistic view.

00:39:44

In fact, there are whole parts of the Bible

00:39:46

that don't make sense because

00:39:47

they're not written to individuals.

00:39:48

They only make sense in community.

00:39:51

There's this whole idea of one another,

00:39:53

and you can't even do most of the commands

00:39:54

in the Bible outside of community.

00:39:56

That's why Paul says in Philippians 2:3,

00:39:58

"Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit,

00:40:01

but in humility count others more significant than yourself."

00:40:06

Hedonism, the worship of pleasure,

00:40:09

the addiction to entertainment is a pattern of this world.

00:40:13

Look at what it says in Galatians 5:17.

00:40:16

It says, "For the desires of the flesh

00:40:18

are against the, capital S, Spirit."

00:40:21

They're against the Spirit of God.

00:40:23

"And the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh.

00:40:26

These are opposed to each other."

00:40:29

And yet, let's just be honest, there is tremendous pressure

00:40:33

to be squeezed into these molds.

00:40:36

How do I know? Because I'm conformed.

00:40:39

I know because there are areas where I'm conforming

00:40:42

and not transforming.

00:40:43

Let me just give you a couple that

00:40:45

I know are are temptations for me.

00:40:46

Every time I hear the word immigration right now

00:40:50

I am being conformed to whatever the news outlet

00:40:54

is that I'm listening to,

00:40:55

and that bias or point of view and perspective.

00:40:58

It's not the full perspective.

00:40:59

But if that's what I'm listening to,

00:41:01

it's conforming my view on how to think about that,

00:41:04

not how the Bible tells me to think about that.

00:41:06

I am being conformed. I know it, I know it.

00:41:09

How about this one? I watch a lot of sports.

00:41:12

I love sports, which means I watch

00:41:15

a lot of sports commercials.

00:41:17

And sports commercials, let's be clear, many of them,

00:41:20

the majority of them want to give me a view of manhood

00:41:24

that is not consistent with the way of Jesus.

00:41:26

They certainly want to give me a view of how I view women

00:41:28

that is not consistent with the way of Jesus.

00:41:30

And they want to give me a view of

00:41:32

this thing called the good life,

00:41:33

that in many ways is not consistent

00:41:35

with the way of Jesus.

00:41:36

But do you know how many thousands of commercials

00:41:38

I've seen in my life?

00:41:40

Do you think they're not having some effect?

00:41:43

Am I somehow immune to all of that influence?

00:41:47

Here's another one. Very, very serious.

00:41:50

I walk into REI, y'all, just to browse,

00:41:55

but then soon realized that my whole survival

00:41:58

hinges on me buying a $300 ultralight titanium spork.

00:42:04

I don't even camp that much, but I need it.

00:42:07

I mean, what happens if I get lost

00:42:09

in my suburban neighborhood

00:42:10

and I have to ration out my takeout?

00:42:13

Better safe than sorry, y'all.

00:42:15

I'm getting the spork.

00:42:16

I mean, we're all conformed in some way,

00:42:20

and that's all I'm saying, is we are all conformed.

00:42:22

But Paul and I am appealing to you,

00:42:25

do not be conformed to this world,

00:42:26

but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.

00:42:32

When I was a kid, I loved Transformers.

00:42:35

I loved Transformers.

00:42:37

My favorite transformer was always Optimus Prime.

00:42:41

Optimus Prime. Loved, loved, loved Optimus Prime.

00:42:44

Loved the little sound they make.

00:42:45

You know when they would, like, transform.

00:42:47

Like, I loved Transformers.

00:42:48

And I believe actually God wants you and I to be Transformers.

00:42:53

God wants you to be a transformed person.

00:42:55

He wants you to be a transformed human.

00:42:57

He wants you to be a transformed family member.

00:42:59

He wants you to be a transformed friend.

00:43:00

God wants you to be a transformer.

00:43:02

So for the rest of the time,

00:43:03

I want to encourage you to be a transformer.

00:43:05

I want to tell you three traits of transformers

00:43:07

that will be true of you if you allow yourself

00:43:10

to be transformed by the renewing of your mind.

00:43:13

And the first one is this:

00:43:15

conformers settle, but transformers soar.

00:43:20

Conformers settle, but transformers soar.

00:43:24

I want to take you to nature on this one.

00:43:27

There is a difference between the behavior

00:43:31

of an eagle and a pigeon.

00:43:35

I grew up in Philadelphia.

00:43:37

You grow up in a big city, there are pigeons all over the place.

00:43:41

And God created everything,

00:43:43

and everything He created is good.

00:43:44

But I would be fine if God created a few less pigeons.

00:43:48

Because what do pigeons do?

00:43:50

They just strut around and poop on things.

00:43:55

And you know, if there's food coming for a pigeon,

00:43:57

they, like, hurry up and try to get to the food, right?

00:43:59

And they just stick around other pigeons

00:44:01

and they never really kind of leave the ground. Right?

00:44:04

They're just kind of annoying, right?

00:44:06

They're just like pigeons. Right?

00:44:07

But here's the thing, pigeons are not

00:44:10

what you and I are called to be.

00:44:12

We're called to fly higher like eagles.

00:44:14

I hang out with some guys.

00:44:15

And one of the things that we have is a phrase regularly

00:44:18

is we talk about, hey, man, let's fly higher.

00:44:20

You know what eagles do when they get around pigeons?

00:44:23

They fly higher.

00:44:25

They fly -- or they eat them, but they fly higher.

00:44:27

They fly higher, right?

00:44:29

Eagles have the ability to soar beyond.

00:44:32

They have the ability to have a different

00:44:34

and distant long term perspective.

00:44:37

Eagles have the ability to let the wind take them higher.

00:44:41

You, my friend, are called to be an eagle, not a pigeon.

00:44:47

I love what Dave Ramsey says about this.

00:44:49

He's talking about money, but it's true about any area

00:44:51

in your life where you're willing to be transformed.

00:44:54

He says this, he says, "Live like no one else,

00:44:56

so later on you can live like no one else."

00:45:01

I love that. I love that.

00:45:03

Live like no one else. Do the weird thing now.

00:45:05

Do the thing that not many people are doing now,

00:45:08

so later on, you can live the life that no one's living now.

00:45:11

You can have the influence that people can't have now.

00:45:14

You can have the joy that people can't have now.

00:45:17

Conformers settle, but transformers soar.

00:45:21

Second thing is this: conformers choose easy change,

00:45:25

while transformers choose lasting change.

00:45:29

See, the data is very clear that if you want

00:45:33

to experience deep pleasure, deep satisfaction,

00:45:37

a fulfilled life, it does not come from quick dopamine hits,

00:45:42

that the deepest, most fulfilled life happens

00:45:46

when you do what I would call and what a pastor called

00:45:49

a long obedience in the same direction.

00:45:51

So when you're willing to walk in something faithfully

00:45:55

over a period of time, you experience the greatest rewards.

00:45:59

In fact, when you settle for the quick hit,

00:46:01

the dopamine comes in, but then it drops

00:46:05

and you actually feel less full than when you started.

00:46:08

Now, I know that because I've made that mistake

00:46:11

over and over again.

00:46:12

One of the things that I am teaching my kids is

00:46:15

how do you train your kids in delayed gratification?

00:46:19

Because here's the thing, delayed gratification

00:46:22

is the difference maker between them and their peers.

00:46:26

So what am I training my kids to be

00:46:29

delayed in their gratification of now,

00:46:31

because I know over time it's going to produce great results.

00:46:34

That's why I care about how they approach school.

00:46:37

That's why I care about how they approach

00:46:39

everything in life, because I want my kids

00:46:42

to be building skills now that are going to

00:46:44

make them great over the long haul, right?

00:46:47

And this is the opportunity we have

00:46:49

if we're willing to step into that.

00:46:51

Now, here's the thing.

00:46:53

There are times in my life,

00:46:54

and I'm sure there's times in your life,

00:46:57

where you take the short term fix,

00:46:59

where you go for the quick change, right?

00:47:00

I'm not alone in that.

00:47:01

I'm not the only weird person who's not been perfect at this.

00:47:04

Thank you. Okay. All right, just make sure.

00:47:06

And whenever I do that, whenever I do that,

00:47:08

it leads to regrettable decisions. Regrettable.

00:47:11

Let me give you a simple one, a stupid one.

00:47:14

But it happens every time.

00:47:16

I travel. Travel fairly often.

00:47:19

And when I am at an airport, I am assessing

00:47:23

the speed and pace of the various TSA lines.

00:47:26

Am I the only one, anyone with me on that?

00:47:28

And why is it that I always wind up choosing the slow line?

00:47:35

But I'm smart enough to know that what I need to do

00:47:38

is make a quick change to the other line.

00:47:41

But why is it that when I get in that line,

00:47:45

now that's the slow line, right?

00:47:46

Regrettable decision. Regrettable decision.

00:47:48

Because I'm trying to make a quick decision

00:47:50

and it never works.

00:47:51

Here's one that my wife has been trying to help

00:47:53

me with for years, and I'm starting to figure it out.

00:47:56

I would say I am good with money.

00:48:00

I would say I am a good steward of our finances.

00:48:04

My wife might say I'm cheap.

00:48:08

That's what she might say.

00:48:11

And she might be right.

00:48:12

Now here's this. I love to cook.

00:48:14

And my wife has told me for years, "Chuck,

00:48:17

the quality of the ingredients you put into the meal

00:48:20

determine the quality of the output of the meal."

00:48:24

But when something is 4 for $5 at Kroger,

00:48:27

I mean, is it really that different? Is it really?

00:48:31

Well, it turns out in some cases it is.

00:48:34

Some cases I've done the cheap thing

00:48:37

only to have a cheap tasting meal at the end.

00:48:40

And I'm like, "Oh, you know what?

00:48:42

Every vanilla extract is not the same.

00:48:46

I probably should have paid a little bit more money

00:48:48

for this vanilla extract." You know?

00:48:50

It's those kinds of things.

00:48:51

It makes regrettable decisions.

00:48:53

And here's what I'm saying in all of this.

00:48:54

All I'm saying is this, do not settle for easy change,

00:48:59

because the life you've always wanted

00:49:01

is rooted in going for lasting change.

00:49:04

You were created for a life that truly satisfies,

00:49:09

and you were created for a life where you actually

00:49:13

allow yourself the time to be transformed.

00:49:16

There's a great book, Ruthless Elimination of Hurry,

00:49:19

and one of the things it says is this:

00:49:39

I'll give you another book if you want to read it,

00:49:42

read with caution because if it challenges you

00:49:45

like it challenged me, just be ready.

00:49:48

The book is called Three Mile an Hour God.

00:49:52

Three Mile an Hour God.

00:49:54

Turns out that the average walking pace of a human

00:49:58

is about three miles an hour.

00:50:00

And the book makes the premise that God moves at

00:50:06

the pace of three miles an hour.

00:50:09

If you want to experience God,

00:50:11

you're going to have to slow down.

00:50:14

You're going to have to not buy in to

00:50:16

the faster, quicker, easier mindset.

00:50:21

But if you're like me, I want to speed God up.

00:50:23

"Come on, God," like, you know, like, "Let's go. Let's go.

00:50:26

God. Let's go. I'm here. I'm here already.

00:50:27

God, why aren't you here?"

00:50:29

But if I really want to experience God,

00:50:31

I need to walk at God's pace.

00:50:35

Because at the three mile an hour pace, I'm transformed.

00:50:40

But when I try to speed up what God wants to do,

00:50:43

I'm being conformed. Three Mile an Hour God.

00:50:46

This is the path to abundant life.

00:50:48

And why this is important is because of this,

00:50:51

the third thing, the third trait of transformers is this,

00:50:53

conform or settle for a smaller story,

00:50:57

but Transformers live a greater story.

00:51:01

You were created to live a greater story.

00:51:03

We sung about it today.

00:51:05

You were made for more, friend.

00:51:07

You were made for more. You're made for more.

00:51:11

You may have seen this before.

00:51:13

This is a common understanding of how many movie arcs go,

00:51:17

how many story arcs go.

00:51:18

Joseph Campbell wrote a book about this

00:51:20

called Hero of a Thousand Faces.

00:51:21

It's the Hero's journey.

00:51:22

And here's what I believe. I know this to be true.

00:51:25

All of us, every last one of us, the way that it works

00:51:27

in your relationship with God, the way that it works

00:51:29

if you haven't chosen a relationship with God,

00:51:31

is that there is a call on the table.

00:51:34

God is calling you.

00:51:35

Remember what I said earlier,

00:51:36

God has world changing callings in this room.

00:51:39

God has world changing callings

00:51:41

of people who are watching right now.

00:51:42

You have a choice though.

00:51:44

Will you accept the calling and all that comes with it?

00:51:50

Because that's the path of transformation.

00:51:52

That's the path of a better story.

00:51:55

Or will you reject the call, choose confirmation

00:51:59

and live a lesser story?

00:52:02

Think about the movies you love.

00:52:04

Think about a movie

00:52:06

that you could watch over and over again,

00:52:07

or think about a movie that moved your heart.

00:52:10

In every one of those stories, there is a hero

00:52:14

who is invited into a call for adventure,

00:52:17

and they have a choice to make:

00:52:19

will they accept it or will they reject it?

00:52:21

I'm going to give you a couple examples of this.

00:52:23

My kids know it's required reading and watching

00:52:26

in my house, The Hobbit by J.R.R. Tolkien.

00:52:28

I just love it. Love it.

00:52:30

The Hobbit is us, man.

00:52:31

We are like Bilbo Baggins

00:52:32

and I love that story for that reason.

00:52:34

What do you have in The Hobbit?

00:52:36

You have a timid hobbit who likes comfort.

00:52:38

Can I get an amen, somebody?

00:52:39

Anybody like that? Right? Right.

00:52:41

A timid hobbit who likes comfort,

00:52:42

who Gandalf the wizard calls to a greater adventure,

00:52:46

"Come help the dwarves regain their homeland

00:52:50

by defeating the dragon Smaug." Right?

00:52:52

And Bilbo doesn't want to answer the call at first,

00:52:55

but he steps into the adventure

00:52:57

and we see him grow in cleverness.

00:52:59

We see him grow in courage.

00:53:01

We see him being one of the reasons why

00:53:03

the dwarves are able to defeat the dragon,

00:53:05

get the Arkenstone and restore their home. Why?

00:53:08

What happens though, if Bilbo doesn't accept that call?

00:53:12

If he doesn't accept that, call his friends, the dwarves

00:53:14

do not restore their homeland and chaos ensues.

00:53:18

Bilbo accepted the call.

00:53:20

He allowed himself to be transformed.

00:53:22

This whole story is about him being transformed,

00:53:24

and because of that, he lived a greater story.

00:53:27

Give you another example, I love Moana.

00:53:30

I love both Moanas.

00:53:31

They're both awesome, awesome movies, right?

00:53:33

What do you have in Moana?

00:53:35

You have a character who is a daughter of a chief

00:53:39

that doesn't want anybody to go into the sea,

00:53:42

and yet all in her is the calling to go into the sea.

00:53:47

[singing] See the line where the sky meets the sea,

00:53:49

it calls me, and no one knows how far it goes.

00:53:57

If the wind in my sail on the sea stays behind me,

00:54:01

one day I'll know how far it goes.

00:54:06

I mean, it's awesome. It's awesome.

00:54:09

[cheers & applause] What a great story.

00:54:12

I did that because my daughter.

00:54:13

That would make me so cool in my daughter's eyes.

00:54:16

That's why I did that just now.

00:54:17

No, but I love that movie.

00:54:19

What happens if she doesn't accept the call

00:54:21

to return to Te Fiti heart, to Te Fiti?

00:54:24

If she doesn't, then her island doesn't get rescued,

00:54:27

she doesn't find her identity and her people aren't saved.

00:54:31

But because she answered the call,

00:54:33

she got a second movie from Disney.

00:54:34

That's a big deal. [laughter]

00:54:36

It's a big freaking deal, right?

00:54:38

No. It's great. I love, love Moana.

00:54:40

And I love when we see this happen in real life.

00:54:43

Because these aren't just make believe stories,

00:54:45

this is real life.

00:54:46

So one of the movies that is on my list,

00:54:48

I haven't watched it yet, but I'm going to,

00:54:50

it's my next one is a movie called Unstoppable.

00:54:52

Anybody seen that, Unstoppable?

00:54:54

Man, I hear so many good things about this.

00:54:56

Anthony Robles was a wrestler

00:54:58

who was born without a right leg,

00:55:01

but he decides to compete in collegiate wrestling,

00:55:04

and he winds up becoming

00:55:05

a Division 1 NCAA wrestling champion.

00:55:08

What a story.

00:55:10

You know what, I bet you a million people

00:55:13

told him to choose a lesser story.

00:55:16

He probably had parents who, because they loved him

00:55:18

and didn't want his feelings to get hurt, said,

00:55:20

"You shouldn't do this. You only have one leg."

00:55:23

He might have had physicians that said to him,

00:55:25

"You shouldn't do this."

00:55:27

I'm sure there were coaches and other people who said,

00:55:29

"Why am I going to spend time on you?

00:55:31

You're limited. You can't do this."

00:55:33

I'm so glad he didn't listen to those people

00:55:35

and he chose to live a greater story.

00:55:37

He's transformed, I'm sure, in the midst of his journey.

00:55:40

I'm sure it has suffering.

00:55:42

I'm sure it has difficulty, but it also has triumph.

00:55:45

It also has triumph.

00:55:47

And because he chose not to conform

00:55:50

to what people said were his limitations,

00:55:52

but to be transformed into a champion,

00:55:54

millions are now inspired by his story.

00:55:58

Friends, this is real life. This is real life.

00:56:01

Give you one more, Gertrude Ederle.

00:56:03

Anybody seen the movie Young Woman and the Sea?

00:56:06

Oh my goodness, you need to watch this movie.

00:56:07

Young woman and the Sea.

00:56:09

This was a woman who was determined to break a barrier.

00:56:12

In the time that she was doing this it was thought

00:56:15

that a woman could not swim the entire English Channel.

00:56:18

It had never been done by a woman.

00:56:20

Not only does she swim the English Channel,

00:56:22

she sets a record in swimming the English Channel

00:56:25

and opens up the door for so many other women.

00:56:28

I love when people step into the story

00:56:31

and there's something about these movies that move us.

00:56:33

You know what it is?

00:56:34

You know why those movies move you?

00:56:36

You know why it wakes you up?

00:56:38

Because you were created to live a greater story.

00:56:42

You were not created for a settling story, a small story.

00:56:47

You weren't made to be tending a grave.

00:56:49

You've been called by name,

00:56:51

born and raised back to life again.

00:56:54

You were made for more. You were made for more.

00:57:01

How do you live a greater story, though?

00:57:03

Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.

00:57:08

Not one time, but as a practice.

00:57:11

You know what we're doing with this Digital Reset?

00:57:14

We're practicing. We're practicing.

00:57:16

I'm talking about practice, man.

00:57:17

That'll never get old.

00:57:19

And if you know, you know. Right?

00:57:20

I'm talking about practice.

00:57:21

It's an opportunity for us to practice

00:57:23

in one area of our life the kind of spiritual principles

00:57:26

that make us great in many other areas of our lives.

00:57:29

How is your mind renewed?

00:57:30

Paul talks about that over and over again

00:57:32

by the renewing of your mind.

00:57:33

Your mind is renewed when you tap into a different power,

00:57:36

when you do different things,

00:57:38

and when you do it with different people.

00:57:41

What we get to do over these 40 days is tap into

00:57:45

the power of God's very Holy Spirit.

00:57:47

When you fast, you're opening yourself

00:57:50

and accessing the power of the Spirit of God

00:57:53

to help you do something that you couldn't do on your own.

00:57:56

The Bible says that the same Spirit

00:57:58

that raised Jesus from the dead lives in you.

00:58:01

If you're a follower of Jesus, the same Spirit.

00:58:04

And that's the Spirit we're tapping into.

00:58:05

And because we're tapping into that Spirit,

00:58:07

we're going to do different things.

00:58:09

We're going to reevaluate our relationship

00:58:10

with our devices.

00:58:11

We're going to do some things different

00:58:13

than what we would normally do.

00:58:14

And here's the thing. We're going to do it together.

00:58:16

You don't have to do it alone,

00:58:18

but we get to be a team in this.

00:58:20

Here's what I want to promise you.

00:58:22

I promise you this reset will renew your mind.

00:58:25

I promise you it will renew your mind.

00:58:28

And I promise you this reset

00:58:30

will have profound spiritual benefits.

00:58:33

You'll hear the voice of God

00:58:34

in a way that you haven't before.

00:58:37

You'll be able to understand how to be peaceful

00:58:41

in the midst of the chaos and the distraction

00:58:43

that we all live in, all the time.

00:58:45

You're going to learn some things.

00:58:46

You're going to have different, and I believe,

00:58:49

better relationships with the people closest to you

00:58:51

if you step in and do this.

00:58:53

So how do you step in? You commit.

00:58:57

How do you do this? You commit.

00:58:58

If you listen to this and say this is interesting,

00:59:01

you will not be transformed.

00:59:04

If you leave here and don't make a decision to do this

00:59:07

in a way that works for you, but to do something,

00:59:09

you will not be transformed.

00:59:11

There's a saying in recovery.

00:59:12

It says, "It works if you work it."

00:59:15

This is only going to work if you work it.

00:59:17

This is only going to work if you step in and do it.

00:59:19

You know what, you commit in a time where people

00:59:22

are losing the ability to commit to anything,

00:59:25

you choose to be a committer.

00:59:26

Who's willing to be a committer?

00:59:28

Who's willing to go against the cultural norm right now?

00:59:32

The cultural norm right now is to not commit.

00:59:35

Let me just give you some statistics on this.

00:59:37

I'm hearing that millennials, the research says

00:59:39

millennials are choosing domestic partnerships

00:59:42

over marriage. You know why?

00:59:44

Because the domestic partnership is a contract

00:59:46

you can get out of when things get tough.

00:59:48

But marriage is a covenant that you commit to for life.

00:59:51

And so people are committing less to marriages.

00:59:54

There's decreased church attendance.

00:59:56

There's actually decreased membership in anything.

00:59:58

Here's one that really got under my goat.

01:00:00

One of the principles I have as a parent and with my kids,

01:00:03

if you try a sport and don't like it,

01:00:05

you're going to finish the season.

01:00:07

You're not going to quit mid-season.

01:00:08

Well, more and more kids are having the permission

01:00:11

to quit mid-season now.

01:00:13

Man, that is not good for

01:00:14

the character development of these kids.

01:00:16

Locally, how about this, the Flying Pig Marathon,

01:00:19

there are fewer people committing to run the marathon

01:00:22

or the half marathon or the 10K, or the 5K.

01:00:26

Commitment is an issue. And you know what?

01:00:28

It's happening around here at Crossroads too.

01:00:31

It's harder and harder to get people to commit to volunteer,

01:00:34

to go on trips that can be transformative,

01:00:36

to go to camps, get off the grid

01:00:38

and connect with God and people in a different way.

01:00:41

It is harder and harder to get people to do things around here,

01:00:44

and we would like to reverse that trend.

01:00:47

Would you like to reverse that trend?

01:00:48

Would you like to be a church of committers?

01:00:50

I believe we're better than that.

01:00:53

Here's the thing, 17,000 of you to date

01:00:56

have gone to Crossroads.net/unplugged.

01:00:58

You've checked out the website,

01:01:00

you've maybe even considered signing up.

01:01:02

Only 2500 of you have signed up,

01:01:05

17,000 visited, 2500 signed up.

01:01:09

What do you say we close that gap right now?

01:01:11

Right now I want you to take out your phone.

01:01:13

We have a QR code that comes up on the screen

01:01:16

and we are going to commit.

01:01:18

We're going to commit together.

01:01:21

So I want to walk you through this.

01:01:22

I want you to just go get that up on your phone.

01:01:25

And when you get there, you're going to see a place,

01:01:27

I think we're going to show it right here.

01:01:29

You'll see it says, "What is the Digital Reset?"

01:01:31

Kind of explains the dates.

01:01:32

And then there's the button. Sign up now.

01:01:34

I want you to click that button.

01:01:36

And then what I want you to do is put your name.

01:01:38

Hopefully that part is easy.

01:01:40

First name should be easy.

01:01:42

Last name should also be very easy.

01:01:46

Email should be easy.

01:01:48

And then there's a box.

01:01:50

Let me give you a couple minutes even now

01:01:52

just to think about what do you want to put in that box?

01:01:54

What are you going to specifically fast from?

01:01:56

Because here's the thing, you want to do what works for you,

01:01:59

but make sure it's something that stretches you.

01:02:02

Don't take the easy way out.

01:02:03

Let me read to you what I put in that box.

01:02:05

I said: my fast is I'm going to make my smart phone dumb.

01:02:08

I'm going to limit TV to only what I watch

01:02:10

with family or in community.

01:02:12

I'm going to set personal and family goals around

01:02:15

how much screen time we will redeem each week of the fast.

01:02:17

I'm going to use that Aro app that maybe you've heard about.

01:02:19

That's what I'm going to do.

01:02:21

So I want you to just think about that right now.

01:02:23

Now for some of you, you've had time,

01:02:24

you've been thinking about this.

01:02:25

Go ahead and fill it out. Hit commit.

01:02:27

For others of you, maybe just put one thing,

01:02:29

one thing you're going to commit to,

01:02:31

and then you get time to figure the rest out.

01:02:32

You got till Wednesday before this starts.

01:02:35

Maybe you're brand new today, but you want to jump in.

01:02:39

I love that.

01:02:40

And maybe right now you're like, "Hey,

01:02:42

I really need some time to think about this."

01:02:44

But if you want to say you're in,

01:02:45

I just want you in that, again, in that blank spot,

01:02:48

just to put the words I'm in, I'm in.

01:02:51

And I want you to hit submit.

01:02:53

Let's be committers.

01:02:54

Let's do this together.

01:02:56

We've got some tools to help you win.

01:02:57

We've talked about those at the top of the service,

01:03:00

but just as a reminder, we've got our app, the Crossroads app

01:03:03

that's going to be providing daily prayer prompts for you,

01:03:06

opportunities to kind of guide you

01:03:07

to connect with God in unique ways.

01:03:09

And we've got the Aro app.

01:03:11

It cost money, but you can access it for free during this.

01:03:14

And I'm really excited about coming on Monday nights

01:03:16

and praying with you guys.

01:03:18

Are you excited about that?

01:03:19

I'm really excited to see what God does, man.

01:03:22

We want to see change, transformation,

01:03:24

not just the personal level, but at the societal level.

01:03:26

What an amazing opportunity we have

01:03:29

to come together and to pray.

01:03:32

Here's what awaits you on the other side

01:03:34

as you're clicking those buttons and committing.

01:03:37

Paul's final words in Romans is this. He says:

01:03:48

I really believe this is one of those inflection moments.

01:03:52

This is so countercultural.

01:03:54

This is so different.

01:03:56

And I think because of that, it's really special.

01:04:00

You step into this, I think

01:04:01

you're going to be different on the other side.

01:04:03

You step into this, I think

01:04:04

you're going to be better on the other side.

01:04:06

I think you'll have some clarity

01:04:07

that is desperately needed.

01:04:09

I think you're going to have some spiritual power

01:04:12

that you don't have right now.

01:04:13

I think you're going to have joy.

01:04:16

And so I just want to invite you to step in to this opportunity.

01:04:20

Because doing this is you saying to Jesus,

01:04:23

"Jesus, I want You.

01:04:26

I want You more than being distracted.

01:04:29

I want You more than numbing out.

01:04:32

I want You more than always being on.

01:04:36

I want You more than instant gratification."

01:04:41

And here's what I know, Jesus wants you.

01:04:45

He wants to be with you in this.

01:04:47

He wants to strengthen you in this.

01:04:49

He wants to transform you in this.

01:04:51

And I know this about Jesus.

01:04:53

The Bible says if you seek Him, you will find Him

01:04:57

because Jesus goes where He's wanted.

01:07:49

- This is the last time we'll get to be together

01:07:53

in a gathering like this before we start.

01:07:56

We'll be together next weekend.

01:07:58

Kyle is going to be talking about

01:08:00

what does it look like for us to Marie Kondo

01:08:03

our digital life, and really walk this out?

01:08:07

But I just want if you are if you are committing to this,

01:08:10

I'm committing to this,

01:08:12

I just want you to put your hands out like this.

01:08:15

And I just want to pray a blessing over you.

01:08:20

This isn't going to be easy, but man, it's going to be so good.

01:08:25

So, God, I just want to bless my family,

01:08:29

my brothers, my sisters, people who are here,

01:08:31

people who are watching at home, watching online.

01:08:33

I want to bless them as they step into this.

01:08:35

This is so countercultural, God.

01:08:38

And God, there's probably going to be

01:08:40

between now and Wednesday something that causes them

01:08:43

to say, "Umm, maybe not," but God, can You meet us

01:08:47

in that moment of doubt with Your strength?

01:08:51

Maybe that will be, for some of us, the first

01:08:54

of many times that we hear Your gentle voice

01:08:57

calling us to live a greater story.

01:08:59

God, would You give us the strength to walk this out?

01:09:02

Would you give us delight and joy in what we learn

01:09:05

and what we find?

01:09:07

Would you help us to find encouragement along the way?

01:09:10

And God, would you do something in and through

01:09:12

this digital fast that doesn't just change us for 40 days,

01:09:17

but changes us for a lifetime.

01:09:19

So God, we believe that You are good

01:09:22

and that this is a gift from You.

01:09:24

With open hands we receive it and we walk out of here

01:09:27

confident and connected to You and to each other

01:09:30

to walk this out in faith.

01:09:32

So I pray this in Jesus's name. Amen and amen.

01:09:36

God bless you guys. [applause]

01:09:37

We're in this together. We are in this together.

01:09:42

- Man, so that is so, so good.

01:09:44

This is a challenge that's not for somebody else.

01:09:46

This challenge is for me.

01:09:48

Everything Chuck shared with us,

01:09:49

everything that we've been preparing for

01:09:51

over the last number of weeks

01:09:52

is to set us up for what starts this week.

01:09:56

To go into this Digital Reset,

01:09:58

to go into this digital fast is not just about

01:10:00

removing distraction from our life.

01:10:02

It's about putting something more valuable

01:10:04

and more worthwhile in its place.

01:10:06

And again, this could impact the trajectory

01:10:09

of your family, of your relationships,

01:10:11

of your spiritual, emotional, relational health.

01:10:14

And so I want to show up well for my kids and for my wife.

01:10:18

I'm going to be leaning in, leaning in hard

01:10:21

over this entire period of Lent

01:10:23

as we hit the Digital Reset.

01:10:24

There's going to be a number of things

01:10:26

that we want to also add in as a replacement

01:10:28

for the time and the space

01:10:30

that we're separating from our phones.

01:10:32

One of those could be using the Aro app.

01:10:34

It normally costs money, but we're giving away free

01:10:36

to everyone in the community.

01:10:38

You can get that at crossroads.net/Unplug.

01:10:40

But for the duration from March 5th

01:10:43

all the way through April 17th, we're going to have

01:10:46

special things in the Crossroads Anywhere App,

01:10:49

special reflections and scripture readings.

01:10:51

We're also going to be having Monday night prayer meetings.

01:10:54

This is not just a time for us to sit and receive prayer.

01:10:57

This is time for us to lean in and say, "God,

01:10:59

if You go where you're wanted, I want to let You know

01:11:02

that I want You to show up right here."

01:11:04

We'll be doing those at all of our sites

01:11:06

and online for Crossroads Anywhere.

01:11:08

So I just want to encourage you, this is your time.

01:11:11

This could change the way your relationships play out

01:11:14

for years and decades to come.

01:11:16

Don't miss this chance.

01:11:17

Go to crossroads.net/unplug

01:11:20

and sign up for the Digital Reset right now.

01:11:22

Thanks so much for joining us.

01:11:24

We'll see you next week.

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